summary.
- your mother in law is protecting her retirement plan.
2.Your wife has low self esteem.
solution.
Leave her, situations like this get you no where
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Kuna watu kadhaaa wamesemani vitamin deficiency.
A friend of mine wife was like that even threatening to kill kila mtu the sobbing for hours and going ape shit. Kuna doki flani who heared that. Kampea suplements then akamwambia akule 2eggs daily max 5.
Kumbe ni vitamin b12 na ingine hapo. Both found in eggs. Izo zikikosa izo feme hormones become uncontrolable wazimu inaingia.
She stabilized btw. Dark thoughts zmeenda sai
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Itās time to re evaluate that relationship,kwani mtashinda hivi mbaka lini?.. Wewe endelea tu kutolerate huo upuzi wake ,siku moja wazimu itampanda and she will stick a knife in your ass ā¦
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Alianza gym hope Kate reduceā:rofl:
Heheheeh wueh ,hizi me siwezi hata dick haiwezi simama when am angry, she has also tried to seduce me when am angry and dick hukataa kusimama ,untill am easy on anger to
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You didnāt get my point, I was actually saying he should stay with the demon he already knows coz he seems to have acclimated, even with a side hen to boot. My point is to have the status quo continue, coz starting over is too laborious.
Mimi siez acha bibi yangu nioe mwingine hata alikulwa. Kwanza hiyo story ya kupata small tois, the labour that comes with them is not something you want to repeat, hiyo kulia usiku, kwendea chanjo na hiyo siku kamedungwa kanalia kama kamelipwa. Nobody can convince me to go through that again
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Naona analogy yako, but ni kama hujamalizia pahali, naona kuna kasoro, hizi dynamic huisha vibaya sana or maybe i donāt have a full grasp of your logic.
From what chics tell me and admit, to them being āstoicā comes off as being a "Narcissist " , they say āhe never listensā shidaā¦ with such dynamics this are the Women who wanaenda kugawa nje high likelihood za ugonjwa.
Why not walk away? is the big question, Being stoic to a mad woman? sheāll just drag you down into her circus show, saa zingine i tried being understanding - feelings zikiwa involved but lazima ukaze roho and just leave. Hapa ndio nashuku wanaume wengi are only stoic in the mind but roho is buttery soft.
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Haka ni kale kahippo ulisema kameanza gym ama ni elder mwingine alikua na hii hekaya? 
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You strike me as a calm conflict avoidant type of man. Si mbaya but you are repressing your true emotions and its enabling her bullshit. Just once in a while get angry and explode verbally for five seconds. No hands, no insults, ukweli tu. Ajue kuna hatari ndani ya hasira yako. Then go quiet.
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Youāll be in for it too, bro. If you believe she went straight to her fatherās house, I have bad news for you. Usually females will bring drama to test the boundaries with people they donāt respect. Youāre able to hold your own by being ambivalent and unbotheredā¦ for now. Thatās the Hadrians war sheās trying to go over , or around with these new theatrics. She will find a way to break you, if you donāt take that option off the table. If she knew for sure she can , and will lose you for good, hio drama itaisha. Kabisa. I saw a lot of men come to therapy, then the inevitable happens and they break upā¦ you see that woman around the city with a man sheās even had a child with and sheās being so genuinely submissive. Unajua tu she didnāt respect that prior guy. Donāt listen to the red herrings . Find your harmonyā¦. In someone else
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Wueh u must be strong man, very strong emotional strong and bigup
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The more options a man has, the less he should tolerate BS
These issues were present while dating
Let it be a lesson to bachelors here
dump crazy women immediately
resist manipulation. Be stoic. The emotions zitapungua.
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We have two kids,and thanks for the support of therapists, u made me realise more reasons she needs it
Kitu kama hio but comes once a month
This true, or even committing suicide
Man tufungue whatsapp grp, am in same chaotic drama, and thanks kwa that point of " I canāt understand her" i have been trying to and she has been crying all time " i understand her"
Kahippo and kamomo are jst jokes name, i do respect her as a mother of two kids ,kwanza her pregnancy are the dangerous ones that i canāt try again,she is not on any pill ,cause of her health effects
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Thanks for this will google
I do pray for such days never to happen bro, ā¦i do remiyher she is mum of two
True, this dramas were there even during dating, but i could handle them then , i do try to handle them,
issues is when she is ok she is so loving but when the drama starts even the devil himself stays aside to watch
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