kwani siku hizi ladies wengi especially hii Nairobi wako na mental health disease. Ni kama hiyo ugonjwa ilireplace Corona scam. Kwanza hawa unadhani wako na kapesa ndio worse. Unatomba dem three days later unaona kwa status ya whatsapp ameweka message ya ati having dark thoughts. Sasa ukiingia kwa relationship na mtu kama huyo si ni mzigo tuu. Unadai kuosha jengele kwa keja halafu anakuambia currently I am in a bad state of mind. Lakini uzuri Chewele village Bungoma county mental health haijafika bado. Ama namna gani @Nameberry1 hii mental health ililetwa na nani.
This is exactly why women get married. Women are not stoic because they derive happiness from social interactions. Men can be stoic because they can derive happiness from experiences and gadgets. @Karoga also lives alone but kazi yake huku ni kuongea juu ya J150 yake. Men are less dependent on social interactions than women. Kwanza huyo kama anakunywa sana jua she is buying her own drinks a.k.a she is post-wall.
The saddest day for a woman is when she walks into a club alone and buys her own drinks the entire night. From that point forward its a wrap.
These are the dangers of embracing modernity (Western “culture”) in totality.
Man(and woman) are through nature and nurture, social creatures. We feel a need to connect with people towards a purpose. Our cultures knew this and the truth is that very many instances of “mental health” are very avoidable problems.
But we’re killing marriage. We’re killing religion. We’re killing the family. We’re killing friendship.
And then we’ll kill ourselves.
Because the man inside is dead and is screaming that you end it all.
It is a very rough situation to be in. But we really need to do better. Both man and woman.
Hiyo sio ugonjwa. Women tend to be like that. One moment they are all jolly, singing, dancy; the next moment they say they are depressed. Utasikia mtu anasema ako na depression in the morning, saa saba unamsikia anacheka yake yote na wenzake hapo kwa ofisi. I dont know what thing ladies call depression, but it is not depression. If it were, there would be at least 1000 women committing suicide every day in Kenya. Ile wanawake wanaitanga depression sijui ni nini.
Kinda makes sense if you think about it. Kama umepatana na mtu and every time it’s like you are dealing with someone different. Yenyewe utaanza wapi kuinteract na yeye. Si atamalisa wewe nguvu
When they get themself, both women and men, watching and getting addicted to Soap operas, movies and what have you, they get mentally deluded. Such women get more stressed because they want the “perfect” life they watch on TV which technically they can’t match because most of them are lazy and only love getting spoilt by desparate men and for men who get addicted to such,they end up being gay.
My unsolicited opinion… ukikasirika, peleka makasiriko kwa wahenga wenyu.
We need to do nothing. You alone should embrace change do away with those social constructs , marriage, religion.
those with mental sadness don’t need to see medicine men, let them seek professional therapy
You are a social being after all there has to be something you clutch on as a social being… if not family, school, peer group, religion, social media, which of these donyou want destroyed and why?
You have a social construct working for you.
I bet you know that logging in and contributing to this anonymous forum is something social too, right?
What’s more therapeutic than being with those you love?
All the above have been taken over by social media … peers u find right here on ktalk, religion u find your group here.even school is online. let the old go everything is now centralized on the socials
I think you could be headed in a bad direction, thinking of self-isolation, what you call doing away with social constructs. (I imagine you mean not bothering to attend weddings, church events, graduations, family gatherings, parties of any sort. These are the things that hold people together, not the fake corporate world, or the online “life”.) You just want to work and hang out with “like-minded people”, then go home to pour yourself a whisky, cuddle the cat, and sleep. That’s how people start dying inside. I’ve seen some clever women ‘die’ this way–and by the time you start trying to reconnect with people, they have forgotten you.
