they say the art of been a good guest is knowing when to leave…
how many days should one host a mgeni …
mimi l think 2days is enough na siku ya tatu anatembeza kiatu…
after the third day sasa inakuwa mazoea…nakukosania heshima…
Inadepend na the occasion. Kama hakuna kitu ya maana amekuja kufanya, 3 days ndio maximum anafaa kukaa. Lazima waseme before waje, otherwise waambie huwezi wa-host for long juu ya other commitments.
@danji there are some relas wale ata wakikushow wanacome they overstay…na ukiwafukuza unakuwa talk of the village vile wewe ni mbaya…ulimtupa nje kama mbwa
Unaweza fanya life ikuwe ngumu uwafanye watoke mbio. Kata lights, minimize food unapika, jifanye mtu ana shida utashtuka venye wata hepa. Hata rela wengine hawatacome.
I think it all depends on where you come from. mostly you find that Wa-Rugurus (guys from mostly Nyanza and Western provinces) tend not to have a time frame for this and someone can stay at your digs for up to a year… especially if you work and live in the major towns.
For us the Mount Kenya forks, a couple of days is about as much as one can house you.
Zusha wakitumia maji mingi kuoga unasema hii maji ni ya kulipiwa hadi ya kukunywa una ration. Hiyo yote unaweka uso serious wanaona huyu jamaa shida zimemchizisha.