Masaibu ya planteshen yanazidi. Two weeks ago bibi aliniambia amequit job all of a sudden juu alikuwa na deni yao na ilikuwa inamstress kulipa. Mi sikuamini but I played it cool. Nikaenda kwa ofisi yake the next day kuuliza kama ni ukweli. Watchman akaniambia chances are ni leave tu amechukua na alikuwa ananitishia. Since then I’ve been patiently waiting for this lady to go back to work lakini two weeks zimepita na bado ako tu hapa nyumbani. She has probably quit her job for real. Sasa ataniforce nibebe mzigo yake. Planteshen=suffering
Na Hio deni si bado atalipa?
Ushenzi hii ni nini? Toka MTU ameoa?
Atabaki home akiwatch soap za alihandro
While you stress in the son to pay her debts, feed her, maintain children, meet bills, etc.
Kwani unalishwa na bibi ama you are a stay at home husband?
Enda uolewe na sara kabu Dio ufoot bills bila problem on condition that you hide your wife very well aikatwe na kisu macende
It is the man’s duty to take care of his wife and kids. Only a useless and hopeless bure man would complain when he does so.
Amekuwa mzigo wako from the day she became your wife. Sasa chunga kubebeswa mzigo ya familia yake
This Christmas, jogoo nyeusi inachinjwa.
kivese inakaa umewai kapitia
I take care of 80% of the bills. She was taking care of kitchen things, medical bills plus her own stuff and her family. Now I might be the one to bear all that without any consultation
Ukioa dem hajatoka familia poa utabeba clan yake mzima
Hehehe, unalilia lia nini Omera, ndio ufikirie kuoa mwanamme hupiga hesabu kuwa yeye ndio kusimamia 200% ya nyumba na watoto, incase upuzi kama huu ukifanyika wewe huna shugli, khupipi aende kazi akitaka ndio asikae bure. Kuna wenye najua wao hufanya hata community/Charity work za kanisa na NGO. Vile unalia hapa chunga wahuni wasipite na mkeo, pesa bibi atakuitisha tu hata kama kazi hana, kosa kulipa ‘service charge’ utaona sirkal ikipinduliwa.
Mimi mahali nimefika, mtu akinipindulia serikali, namnunulia lunch nimwambie asante
Relax kaka, responsibilities zote ni zako kazi yake ni kutulia kejani akujenge nyaus, akuzalie na awalee watoi wako na afanye nyumba ikuwe warm. Kama una manage 80 percent then you can manage the other 20 percent. Hio 20 percent huwa unapelekea lanye na danguro ifike home sasa. Ndio umeanza life. Congrats
Its not 1973 anymore. If a woman does not contribute her share of household expenses dump the dead weight. If your total household expenses each month ni 120k toa 100k atoe 20k. Usikubali kuwa punda wa kubebeshwa mizigo yote.
Nakuombea a long and healthy life. Lakini if something bad happened ushindwe ku-hustle for a few years while recovering, si bibi yako anakuwa lanye automatically juu hajawahi chokea pesa? I believe that a man should contribute the lion’s share lakini sio 100% unless ni special situations e.g when she is pregnant or in between jobs. Ni vizuri bibi ajue kuhustle kidogo na kubeba majukumu kiasi. The last thing you want is your sons being raised by a pampered clueless housewife if shit happens to you juu before she knows it atakuwa amemaliza mali yako yote akuwe lanye ama ateseke sana juu she doesn’t know how money works.
Yuko tu sawa, she runs a salon na biz yake si mbaya viile kama sahi dec naona wako busy sana, mimi husema kama ni my responsibiities nitajibebea kama mwanaume. Mimi ndio nilioa si yeye alinioa so hio story ya sasa aanze kunilea nayo hapana.
Iko wapi ile gif ya @Baby_Panay calling?
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