With two children hiyo story ya kudump inakuwa ngumu kidogo. Tungekuwa childless huyu ningekuwa nishamtoka zamani sana. Ni kama anajaribu kukuwa dictator kwa nyumba yangu
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Usijali at the end of the day mwanaume ndio hubeba mzigo. Mimi wyf alinimess time flani alikula fee ya mtoi 55k
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How did you cope? Kwa planteshen you have to take so much crap and swallow it with a smile. Siku hizi nikiona my fellow dads nawadharau kidogo because I know how much crap they are taking from the wife for the sake of the kids
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huyo amekosana na office husband
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Taking care of 100% of the bills has only ever been feasible for the super rich. If you try take on 100% of bills as a mido crass or even upper mido crass, you will live a pathetic life. The average couple has always shared resource gathering duties. Even in the “good old days”
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Utaona aki expect you maintain the exact life style despite her not bringing her slice of the pie , hawa watu huwa dunia yao !
Kumbe amekushika makeii na pliers.
Hapo sasa we will keep you in our thoughts juu ni kama story yako imeisha. I can give you directions to a cheap nice bar where you can drown your sorrows and accept your fate.
Akimwaga ugali unamwaga kitoweo.
Kazi huisha na kazi ingine itatokea, shikilia all the bills for the time being until she finds a new job. Usikue na akili bongolala shorterm kama wanawake akiona ushapoteza job tayari ashaanza kuplan her exit strategy.
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Ni kama hujaelewa huyu jamaa. Sio kufutwa amefutwa kazi ni yeye ameacha kazi. Huyo hakai mtu anatamani kufanya kazi tena.
This might be a blessing in disguise. If she is 100% dependent on you financially utaweza kukata hizo pembe zake to size. Her actions will give you serious leverage over her ukiwa mjanja. Now you can use the carrot and stick approach to condition her like a pavlovian dog.
A man should only buy shopping, pay fees and rent. The rest of the bills pipi ajipange. Ile pesa utabaki piga sherehe calabash
You are right, but without something like 300k salo or 30m liquid net worth, living on a single income is just a pathetic existence. Kuna cuzo wangu ameharibu kukuwa sole provider on a middle class income, jamaa siku hizi ako formless. Weekend amekaa tu nyumbani watching football and playing fantasy juu pesa ya starehe haiko
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Define pathetic existence in lifestyle terms juu sijakuelewa.
Babymama never worked a single day since I took her in and she quit her mpesa attendant job pale jamu after I knocked her up. At 25 she is pregnant again and building a 50m apt block pale Gilgil. She even changed her last name to mine and rolls with ma mom 24/7 nowadays. Told her soon she gonna start killing people just like her. She was like … whatever it takes for the family. I was like u becoming her and that’s no good shawty. Is that why she gave u the money … coz she training u to be her.
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Women will give it out for many different reasons… whether you give her a million every month… If she wants to dish it out she will find a reason and go for it… And here I mean almost all women…
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If this is a true story, here goes:
She had already planned to do this. I have dated lotsa chicks who have admitted that they would settle for a rich man as a housewife rather than slave at a corporate job. A lot. Seems you got one of these.
The term for these types in the manosphere is: Dishonest hustlers
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