Dating older women, is not a trend that started today, yesterday, last week, or last year. It has been happening before the great grand parents of everyone reading this.
There are several advantages of dating an older woman;
1.No pressure about settling down.
2.High levels of maturity (Which rubs on the dude).
3.Career advancement and connections.
4.High level of experience.
5.They are not into you for your wallet size.
6.Age comes with confidence.
7.No more drama.
8.They are classy.
9.The sex is amazing.
Let us try to mind our businesses when we observe a large age gap between a man and an older woman. Let us be happy they found love and pray we find ours.
Dated an older woman a year ago when me and my GF were having issues. I can say it was the worst mistake of my life. Every weekend, she wanted me to take her out, buy drinks (Red Label), pay for room, groceries… salon…blah…blah. The day I walked out…nikasema Misri sirudi! Amerjaribu come back…but salamu tu ni Kwa FB.
Hizo sasa ndio ziko na drama! The most famous relationship of that kind in Kenya was the one between Wambui Otieno and Mbugua (hope I’m not mistaken and that was his name). I think I’ll pass. Any sane man with a modicum of dignity and self-respect would also avoid such a relationship.
Huyo boy alikuwa shamba-boy wa Wambui. Imagine a young man like that living with a mama ambaye akiretire for the night anatoa dentures anaweka hapo bedside ndio sasa mlale. Hiyo ni life ya aina gani?