You,2 hot slaps+swip,Your Wife and Your/Yenyu Investment(long read)

[anon18059438]

@IPDEV

Sorry bro,i disagree on riding solo kiddos wakae na wewe bila mama au the reverse zote ni stress.She rubs your back you rub her back.

I do it bila stress. I see my kids every weekend and at times during the week i pick them from school… Wacha nikuambie, most women are demons who will bring you a lot of pressure once you are married. They are angels when you are single but wacha muoane ujionee maneno… I think marriage is overrated, it binds and confines you and if you are a free spirit like me, you will feel suffocated… Some kids have their dad’s working abroad na hawasumbui na probably they see him once in four years… As long as i provide, i care less about being liked, or loved or respected by anyone. As long as i provide.

[MAD_GUY_U_GUY]

@karl marx

Never invest too much with any woman who isn’t your daughter or mom. Your wife, no matter the tons of ‘love’ between you, is a stranger. And she will remain thus. Taking a woman to school should be left to idiots. If your wife is working and wants that MBA, let her take a loan on her own. If she isn’t working and wants to be educated, tell her she should have learnt not to undress(even to you the husband) until she was through with school. If their parents insist on you educating her, tell them to come for her. If you must educate her, ask her parents to surrender their title to you as a security :D- she will think twice before playing any games with you.
I know i am exaggerating some aspects but the spirit of my post is this: today, what is called marriage is nothing but a farce. Woe unto those who invest heavily in terms of emotions and finances in this idiocy. It’s shameful for a grown up man to be educating a grown up woman.
In college, i saw how married women whose husbands had decided to take them back to school were getting s.hagged all over. Then their husbands were busy hustling for the next semester’s fees. BS
It will take time before men realize that there is nothing like love—even from their wives. It’s all strategic objectives. Never surrender your comfort(especially finances) so that your wife can advance her ‘ambitions’. It’s BS tenfold.

Hapo nakubaliana na wewe! kuna time a pal of mine alinishow,do some investments without your wife’s knowledge.They are not always their for love and the children,its all about convenience and security

[dingoo_wa_ingoo]

@spax

What if the roles of educating were reversed (the wife educates the hubby), would you still stick to your tirade?

of course he wouldn’t. Have you not heard of the popular saying kuelimisha mvulana ni kuelimisha taifa?

[duad]

@IPDEV

The story goes like this,jamaa gets recruited to the KDF,gets pressure to marry stori ya promotion,gets a ka village girl,takes her to Teacher Training College,7 years on with 4 Kiddos and a thriving Nursery/Primary school next to his home shiet happens.
The jamaa posting zake za Somalia strains the business, used to be in Eldy throughout hence was easy mnaging with wife as Director.Kidogokidogo wife feels anataka job ya uwalimu( English teacher primary )next county despite the strained business.
Jamaa comes for annual leave confirms a Teachers union guy wa county who happened to have pushed for the teachers job amekuwa anachukua slices all along.Anajinyamazia goes back to Somali after leave imeisha,2 days later suicide by bullet through the skull.
6 months on land next to school that was to have domitory when they were to upgrade to a boarding school-------a petrol station/car wash/milk bar comes up,blocking the schools view that was next to the main Kapsabet-Eldy road.Education officials under 2 months declare school at risk,gets it closed.
Ni nini nitawacha wakati nitaenda and does it matter if i get this lady nimpe 2 hot slaps and a swip?

The only thing i don’t get is this…if you have four kids why kill yourself if bibi anahanya? There is still much to live for ata kama wampenda vipi. Kama ni hio shule one can always resign after tour of duty pale Som na kuendelesha kazi. Now kids don’t have a father …labda mwenye kugawiwa slices na bibi sasa hataki juu ya added responsibility…this sucks

[Willy_Matadi]

@spax

What if the roles of educating were reversed (the wife educates the hubby), would you still stick to your tirade?

Wote ni kunguru watapaa!

[Simiyu22]

@karl marx

Never invest too much with any woman who isn’t your daughter or mom. Your wife, no matter the tons of ‘love’ between you, is a stranger. And she will remain thus. Taking a woman to school should be left to idiots. If your wife is working and wants that MBA, let her take a loan on her own. If she isn’t working and wants to be educated, tell her she should have learnt not to undress(even to you the husband) until she was through with school. If their parents insist on you educating her, tell them to come for her. If you must educate her, ask her parents to surrender their title to you as a security :D- she will think twice before playing any games with you.
I know i am exaggerating some aspects but the spirit of my post is this: today, what is called marriage is nothing but a farce. Woe unto those who invest heavily in terms of emotions and finances in this idiocy. It’s shameful for a grown up man to be educating a grown up woman.
In college, i saw how married women whose husbands had decided to take them back to school were getting s.hagged all over. Then their husbands were busy hustling for the next semester’s fees. BS
It will take time before men realize that there is nothing like love—even from their wives. It’s all strategic objectives. Never surrender your comfort(especially finances) so that your wife can advance her ‘ambitions’. It’s BS tenfold.

I used to argue like that but I changed. Its okay to pay for your wifes education but only if you have kids. The reason is if you upgrade your wife, you upgrade your kids too even if she leaves. In fact its better that way if she ever leaves and shes comfortable with a good job, hawes kukusumbua sana with kid finances.

[Simiyu22]

@MAD GUY U GUY

Hapo nakubaliana na wewe! kuna time a pal of mine alinishow,do some investments without your wife’s knowledge.They are not always their for love and the children,its all about convenience and security

Big mistake. If anything ever happens to you, the property disappears. Happened to a friend of mine. The lawyers disappeared with prime land all over Nai and Kiambu. Watoto moved from living in majuu in Nai to Umoja after his death. You cant beat the lawyers they knew how to inflate the costs. Always keep your wife involved. Hata kama women may be in it for convinience. A girlfriend is different from a wife. I would rather loose half my property to my wife in a divorce than loose all of it to conniving lawyers( In which case my kiddos are left bila).

[Acoustic]

@uncle nyam

I do it bila stress. I see my kids every weekend and at times during the week i pick them from school… Wacha nikuambie, most women are demons who will bring you a lot of pressure once you are married. They are angels when you are single but wacha muoane ujionee maneno… I think marriage is overrated, it binds and confines you and if you are a free spirit like me, you will feel suffocated… Some kids have their dad’s working abroad na hawasumbui na probably they see him once in four years… As long as i provide, i care less about being liked, or loved or respected by anyone. As long as i provide.

There’s nothing like kids seeing their parents living together as ONE unit. It gives them confidence to catapult their life goals from the safety of knowing how much they are loved by their parents. One happy family, under God. Right now I’m feeding my son while Mrs is fast asleep. We take turns, you both have to agree to make things work and remain humble. Even if she’s the mother, she also deserves her rest. Providing materially is a fraction of what kids need to grow up as emotionally balanced, spiritually grounded human beings. Remember you’re creating a legacy my friend. How will your kids remember you?

[High_street]

@karl marx

Never invest too much with any woman who isn’t your daughter or mom. Your wife, no matter the tons of ‘love’ between you, is a stranger. And she will remain thus. Taking a woman to school should be left to idiots. If your wife is working and wants that MBA, let her take a loan on her own. If she isn’t working and wants to be educated, tell her she should have learnt not to undress(even to you the husband) until she was through with school. If their parents insist on you educating her, tell them to come for her. If you must educate her, ask her parents to surrender their title to you as a security :D- she will think twice before playing any games with you.
I know i am exaggerating some aspects but the spirit of my post is this: today, what is called marriage is nothing but a farce. Woe unto those who invest heavily in terms of emotions and finances in this idiocy. It’s shameful for a grown up man to be educating a grown up woman.
In college, i saw how married women whose husbands had decided to take them back to school were getting s.hagged all over. Then their husbands were busy hustling for the next semester’s fees. BS
It will take time before men realize that there is nothing like love—even from their wives. It’s all strategic objectives. Never surrender your comfort(especially finances) so that your wife can advance her ‘ambitions’. It’s BS tenfold.

Well said…A good person leaves an inheritance for their children’s children…*(Proverbs 13:22). Mambo ya ku-invest in your wifes’ education ni meffi…

[IPDEV]

Enyewe getting blessed with a wife is different from looking and getting-----tafakari ya bibilia.