Yes we can meet but not date

Sex & Relationships
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I need quick advise from Elders who are familiar with female psychology .

I have bean chasing this fine (around 8/10 as per Ktalk standard ) 22 year old college girl (medic); for close to 4 months now without much progress .Our conversations have generally been smooth all along

Eventually, she has agreed that we can meet up over some coffee .

However, she has made it clear that even though she is looking fwd to it, I should not consider it a date coz she kind of dating someone else. Why the mixed signal?

Should I abandon the mission?

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Hio ni kelele tu… Kama kanakubali mpatane, kako interested… Kanataka mpatane kwanza kakuchambue kajue kama uko worth it…

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Don’t you think four months is too long? A 22 year old college girl has so many orbiters and I don’t think you want to be one of them. Patia yeye blackout and start seeing other girls but do not spend much of your energies trying to win their love and also…try not to focus on sex otherwise it will drain you emotionally. Utajifunga. Kumbuka @ChifuMbitika once said kuma ikona spirits. Itakufunga. wacha wajilete kichinjio…at their own risk…as they try to outdo each other…and remember not to promise marriage. Be selfish and let them try to make you happy…usisumbuliwa na mapenzi…hio ni upuss…especially if you are working hard to improve yourself…

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Kijana you’re slowly being prepped as the side dick, ghaseer ya kuzima moto when her main dick is out of town on business. With luck you might prove yourself capable and assume the posison of the main mboro. Good luck!

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Ask her what she means with the word ‘dating’ most girls think dating is going for a fcuk.

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…he should not allow her to play such games. He should ignore her and move on. If he plays along her stupid games dem atambeba ujinga…a woman playing hard to get huwa anapima mjamaa to establish his weaknesses…and use them to her advantage.

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It’s not rocket science that she’s accepting the meet up to weigh options… cut off communication and get someone who’ll level up to your straight forward approach

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Women are not that stupid. Hio ni kupima mjamaa…

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Uzi ifungwe sasa after this gravitas answer

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cut off comms, radio silence…alpha team going dark

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I just told him what the kunguru has in mind… Chenye sasa atafanya baada ya kujua ivo ndio itaamua kama atabebwa ufala

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Ujinga wa hali ya juu…kuna wasichana wangapi huku nje?

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Tulisema you cannot negotiate desire. Be with women who are into you

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#simpslivesmatter

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Dem anataka tu kumkula pesa.

She wants the nigga to orbit her so she could have different options to fuliza with those “please do me a favour” requests.

Basically, kwa akili ya dem atakuwa yule jamaa huwa ananibuyia lunch ama drinks nikikosa fom.

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She isnt decided yet… Hio anataka kudecide wakienda date… Lakini bado anaweza amua from how the mjamaa is conversing… Akionyesha yeye ni simp, apo sasa katakuwa kashaamua

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She wants to string you along. If you fall for her shit test she will friend zone you. Na hutamkula. So Jichuje before you invest more time on her. Hakuna vile a chick with high interest on you aneza pull hiyo stunt.

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Huyo ameweka condition hata before mkutane…heshimu pesa yako

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Medic is an euphemism for KMTC? If so abandon ship or head fast to embobut.

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Quote Rollo:

"When a woman goes from hot to cold and back again, THIS IS the message — she’s got buyers remorse, you’re not her first priority, she’s deliberating between you and what she perceives is a better Hypergamous prospect, you were better looking when she was drunk, etc. — the message isn’t the ‘what ifs’, the message IS her own hesitation and how her behavior manifests it. 10 dates before sex? This IS the message. Canceling dates? Flaking? strong interest to weak interest? This IS the message.

Women with high interest level (IL) wont confuse you. "