Kuna Kunguru flani I have been having an on and off relationship since I separated with my wife two years ago. I had known her for a while and she was ok; basically she was my type and tulikuwa tunapelekana vizuri. Now, of late amaenza entitlement zingine zile huwa zinafanya watu waende Embobut na Vumbistan. Last week tulikuwa twende ka holiday so i got to the airport on time and waited for her, kuona time imeeenda i checked in and boarded. By the time she was getting to the airport, plane had already left. Mimi kufika destination naona ameniandikia text ati niko na madharau ati nilimwacha and i asked her a very simple question, ndege ni yangu? Getting to the hotel i settle, change and head to the restaurant to eat. As am eating, I look around and I see a certain lady seated alone taking wine na nikajiuliza kwani mtu anaeza kuja holiday solo. Kumaliza food nikaitisha a glass of wine nikaanza kuteremsha mdogo but the African in me ilikuwa inataka kupiga flush, nikaona nikikunywa by the glass itakuwa hasara. Checking the price by the bottle was more favourable but i wasnt going to take the bottle by myself, I gathered courage and approached the lady to ask her she is alone and if we can share a bottle instead of taking by the glass. To my surprise she was ok with the whole idea, waiter akaleta wine and we started drinking together over small talk. After 1hr she asked me if i was waiting on someone and told her what happened, the look of disbelief on her face wacha tu. She asked me what happens and if she wants to come she can pay for her flight otherwise siezi shindwa kujipanga na activities. As we talk with my wine pal, naona kunguru inanipigia inaniuliza nimempangia aje cause she had even take leave from work, mtoi akapeleka kwa sis yake and she had even given the nanny a break. Mimi na elder status yangu ya Ktalk just told her aende online and she books Mash poa to Malindi atafika next day at around 8 then we can pick it up from there. Her answer was heri hiyo trip ikae, i will just organise myself nijipe shughuli and she ended the call by kuniambia enjoy yourself. All this while the call was on speaker and my wine pal asked me how old she is, her back ground and what she does. Wine pal aliniambia huyo as much as she is in her early 30s kuna utoto bado hajamaliza and its going to cost her big time. But somehow wine pal alikuwa convinced kuguru itatokea morning. Morning time ya breakfast wine pal was still convinced kunguru inacome, ikafika lunch time kunguru hajafika ndio wine pal akaniambia yenyewe some women feel entitled; you miss a flight and still expect to be paid for again. Hivyo hivyo ndio nilijipata sasa nimemuuliza wine pal what shes doing on holiday alone and she told me shes a single mother but the kids wanasomea USA, so she does two holidays. One with the kids in December then wakirudi first week of January anapiga holiday pekee yake before she goes back to the hustle. After sharing some info it just happened that we are agemates and share alot in common the high light being good swimmers. Hivyo tu tulijipata tumepanga activities; trip to hells kitchen in Maraafa and snorkeling. Hapo kwa snorkeling ndio nilijua kama ni kupewa vitu that will be the determinant. Tukiwa snorkeling I got a serious hard on cause of close bodily contact guiding her under water and she felt it. Going back to the room chiq told me that she wants but sikuelewa, so i asked her what and she just looked at my dick. Told her we meet in 30min nikaenda kwa ile bar iko karibu na beach got condoms. It ended up being a sex vacation; we were both horny because and I came back a happy man. Honestly when i landed i didnt know what i would do when i was there alone but this wine pal of mine made my vacation awesoma. Sasa mimi nimerudi Nairobi kunguru yangu inanitumia picha ati gari haina mafuta, express way card haina kakitu and she needs some cash before salo iingie. Sasa hii entitlement ya Kunguru hutoka wapi surely.
inakaa wewe ni mubaba/sponsor…as they call us:D
You must be a pussified beta male and that is why the entitled bitch, she is treating you like a doormat. She was not late for the flight, but busy receiving reciprocating strokes from the local butcher moreover, the beauty of it is you are rich but pussy starved man
Women just like children can only go as far as you let them… Aliitisha hizo vitu because ulikuwa umezoea kupeana… So wacha kulalamika… If you have found someone new and more interesting just put on your forestry uniform and move on…
Umemzoesha the entitlement.
Sadly, amekaa na wewe, akakusoma, na akaona anaweza kupush around
that’s where the entitlement inatoka
You are now sponsoring her (rather than being husband/boyfriend)
If you are doing early 30s, you can do lower
If you are not seeking to remarry soon, you are better off eating pre-wall soft soft campus chicks and shifting to the next one every few months
Some have less expectations than the entitled single mum
It takes guts to change a situation like this … do you have what it takes? Probably not
Yaani wanaume pay flights for women to get sex. Waaah.
MGTOW =FREEDOM…at what stage of madness , delirium,utter foolishness and insanity does one take a kunguru for holiday?
Kwanza a post wall chieth takataka with a kid to boot???
Saitan ashindwe kaimana???
At some point I had thought that she is marriage material but ukifanya analysis ya pros and cons unaona cons zimeshinda pros. We all approach relationships differently, when seriously dating I will spoil you but kama ni hizi za 150, tagged and afro introductions you wont want to meet me again. Hii kunguru ni hardworking, very presentable but kuna kaujinga amebakisha. Am very tolerant but if i make up my mind i dont renege. One thing i have realised with Kenyan women they dont keep time, mimi tukisema ni 10:00 ukikuja 10:10 utapata nimeenda. Sasa huyu najua atajaribu mind games but sisi ni wale tukienda tumeenda. Kama kunaplace i realised you can get advice ni hapa klist, its you to filter the chaff from the wheat.
We have been dating on and off. Kama ni sex nje ya Nairobi hujipa tu. The minute you check in kuna hao madame wa reception, ukimwambie akutafutie mtu very fast utapata. Niliwahi pata mmoja Malindi alikuwa anarun brothel kwa simu yake, anakupea phone uchague picha ya ule unataka.
ningekua mwalimu wako wainsha ningekupea 0%.
anajichocha, popote unapata neno ndenge kwa hekaya, replace it with Chania.
Dickson …ata picha moja ya entitlement jameni ? Ticket ya ndege? Snorkeling ???
Hekaya without evidence is considered as story ya jaba at the village square.
End the relationship and move on. Many women around. Kuna mwingine aliniambia ati nimfungulie biashara….I told her to ask watu wa kwao. Aje sasa!
Sasa wewe… unamtuma aje Mash na kuna Tahmeed na Buscar?
Unataka alete kunguni hotelini
Siwai jaribu hivyo tena
Ala ? Mash Iko na kunguni siku hizi ?
Wacha hizo. Akifungua mapaja na wewe unamfungulia biashara.
The wider she spreads her legs( or butt cheeks if you are that kinda guy ) The bigger the investment should be. :D:D
Going to the ocean with your own water… Hizo trips hutaka dem ame ku zungusha… Nd playing hard to get…
Uki malizana na yeye… Una pandisha yeye SGR wewe una take flight back like a boss.
Unapelekaje mumama wa 30+ years coast??? You can easily get a 22 year old bimbo wa Uni with a very tight p#ssy and the latest bedroom skills wa kuenda na yeye vacation.
Mwanamke akipita 25 years unamkulia some cheap hotel in Nairobi and consider it a favor to her.
Moral lesson: "she is in her early 30s kuna utoto bado hajamaliza and its going to cost her big time"