Women are so brainwashed that even saying that you don’t want to get married is so hard. I honestly had never seen myself being married to or having kids with any man but saying it was a problem. I’d date men who would talk about they can’t wait to wear my ring and to get a daughter who looks like me and I was just blank. My mind wasn’t seeing beyond dating. One day a guy I was seeing for 2 years asked me why I didn’t want to get married. I had never told him that verbally but I guess he could see I wasn’t like other women who pushed men towards meeting their parents. He took me to meet his then waited for me to reciprocate. I didn’t.
Even the last man I dated had already started telling people how I’m his wife and we’d known each other for just 3 months. Me I was just blank and eventually I ended the relationship and he chased me for a whole year after I ghosted him. I don’t officially break up I ghost because I hate confrontation. I think that was when it became clear to me that I should officially retire from men because one day I will try to leave a man and he will kill me for leading him on. Apparently dating someone means you automatically want to make it permanent. It’s been 2 years and I’ve managed to dodge male advances quite well I must say. It’s so peaceful and relaxing aki. Men are stress.
Nobody should feel ashamed or struggle to admit they don’t want marriage. You don’t need an explanation. A woman’s intuition is always right. Look at how this woman is struggling to fight her conditioning to finally admit that she doesn’t want to get married. Women are so brainwashed by the Patriarchy. Hadi you can’t say it with your full chest.
