Can someone explain to me the psychology behind this habit?
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I could explain it to u but then again i won’t.its nothing personal.
some womrn are emotional creatures and some are whores pretending to be chaste… once they don’t get the money or attention they need they will ride any dick that gives them either
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Being emotional is not equal to sleeping around! Or is it a phase like ok now I’m married I don’t need to prove anything to anyone so promiscuous phase it is, till I get tired then I go back to being chaste.
I don’t know what happens to women in marriage or is it having sex everyday makes you an addict low key? Someone explained it to me like that. It’s hard to understand these married people coz even the men are the same way. It’s like sex is going out of fashion. Ama bcz you don’t have the freedom to,now it becomes very alluring?
Wanakuanga njaa mbaya meanwhile single folk are less bothered. Paradoxical.
You don’t want me to know married people secrets? Si muko na libido?
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They discover the sweetness of lolipop
emotions control you… rejection motivates seeking for validation… she wants to find something that wants her. and men will sleep with anything that looks their way… blame it on monkey instincts
Well why not get validation from shopping like I do anytime I get some bad emotions coming my way? Does it make sense that it’s a man causing you pain , a man who promised to love and cherish you Infront of God and family, then you go to yet another man who hasn’t even promised you a bar of chocolate , to get the validation,the man who gave you the ‘priviledge’ of 'wifing ’ you couldn’t give you?
Where is the sense in that? If a man is the source of your problems and bad emotions then more men equal to more problems and bad emotions. Women need to rediscover shopping. There’s no problem a new pair of swanky shoes or jewellery can’t fix! Spend a few hours in a mall and discover that sex/men have nothing on shopping! This is the age old magic cure for every woman’s problems. Men need women, women need shopping,shoes, jewellery and each other! 
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the human mind cannot be satisfied… ndo maana you will have second guess on spending and post nut clarity… happiness is a choice that requires emotional intelligence..and only 1 percent may have that.
Better to have buyer’s remorse than regret a one night stand or a sneaky link. Sex is too loaded to be compared with shopping! TBH no man has ever given me the high I get on Black November! My dopamine is in the sky!
point is… you never get rid of that void of want and jelousy.
Don’t be dramatic, no matter how much food you eat today tomorrow you will still feel hungry,it’s just how God created us! Nothing will ever be fully satiated as long as you are human! It’s nothing to be ashamed of. Just pick your poison wisely! Better to be in debt than suicidal with HIV.
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with debts you could atleast kimbia to uganda and never be found 
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comparing men and shopping? this woman needs to come clean and say what men did to her
in her defense… men are highly suggestible to the promise of pussy.. so its a fair comparison
https://x.com/MrKimmKE/status/1927032955387441262
Single mum probably as a teenager. There’s no comeback from that level of character development.
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Kasipul MP just moved from Kericho to Meru changed his name and didn’t pay the bank loan. The only problem you can’t solve in Kenya is criticising the government.
FOMO
Fear
Of
Missing
Out.
They try to recover their lost mojo in marriage by sleeping around gaining a foothold in the market though still they can barely catch up with gen z
Who can argue with that? A very valid reason!
True, iko msupa alininyima sana campo. Alipoolewa akazalia mzee tulikutananga tao virandom. Sahii ni 5yrs tukikulana. Hapo mimi hujua tuko wengi.