He’s my best friend. We are friends. He’s my friend. Kwani he’s supposed to be your enemy ama why the over justification? I would think that if you have 4 kids with someone the first thing would obviously be that he’s even more than a friend but I guess the bar is in hell, so you have to elucidate that you are friends. Its said in a manner to imply that it’s not the norm for husbands and wives to be friends,so if you are friends your relationship is somehow special. The language of oppression and male identified women, even after they’ve done the worst to them , you will hear the woman justify the toxic relationship by saying he was my best friend. How and he did you dirty? You should say you thought he was your friend. Btw I don’t hear this lingo with white women or even black women married to white men, is it a black thing?
Alafu, inamaa kidogo, is how married men ask their wives for sex ama? She has sex every day unless she is sick, imagine if she was to find out that he’s cheating. Weuh! This married women ni kweli they’re made from a different material juu,I don’t even understand how it’s possible to be having sex every day sometimes 4 times a day,is that even normal? Huyu mama anatupima.But being a woman ni KAZI. She has as much sex as some sex workers! Four times a day kwani ni chakula?
Weuh. Black men! Edwin isn’t satisfied with your submission of sex four times a day, you gotta do better! Don’t even open your mouth to speak for your houseband!

