A mpipi is supposed to support a man in all his dreams and visions but if you have an unsupportive mpipi whom verbally tells you she is supportive but doing exactly opposite and deep down she is not yet you feed her, keep her, pay all her bills, etc and never ask any money from her yet working.
A mpipi who if you raise an idea or just holding discussions with friends, she is the first to disagree with you even in your areas of expertise and try to make you look like a fool
Advise needed
You are the wife and her the husband…in short umekaliwa chapati
Kataza yeye pesa or ration… Make some changes otherwise akipata some more children she will have more leverage …mambo itakuwa mbaya zaidi
Ungetuita kabla umuoe.
Tomba yeye vizuri na uwache kumtegemea kwa advices au kiuchumi
Never put a woman on a pedestal even your wife as she will have no choice but to look down on you. And also man up my guy. Ni hayo tu.
hii noma, how long have you been married, any kid(s)?
When your friends come, tell her to excuse you, so that you can discuss serious matters, otherwise, si lazima friends wakutembelee kwako.
That’s a difficult spots to be in, are you an as$-hole in your marriage, because this things rarely happen without an underlying reason.
Kuna na time a close friend amepigwa ngeta, i happened to take him to his crib, for first aid.
One thing I noticed, was that, the wife was having a blast. She was enjoying that jamaa amepatikana. It was written all over her face.
what if your ideas are just trash with a capital T?
Talk with her; not at her. Wewe ndiye ulimtafuta kakushinda sasa?
If all else fail find solace in this track.
:D:D…chances are huyo jamaa humchapa mkewe
Lea watoto wako, do your investment and save for your retirement. Remember ,never consult your WIFE ! Ukitoka na gari yako nyumbani upate mteja do your maths ,uza get your monies , chukuwa taxi ,bodaboda whatever , fanya hesabu ,nunua plot, au kula faida ! Buy another car 2-3 weeks later…WOMEN CAN BE A BIG HEADACHE, YOU MIGHT BE CONSULTING THE WHOLE NEIGHBOUR HOOD
whether a woman supports or agrees is immaterial and not worth paying attention to.
Pewa chenye unakunyua bill kwangu
She doesn’t look up to you or respect you. Are you deficient in some way? Are you the kind of man that other men and women hold in high regard?
Watu wanaokota wapi wanawake waovu kama hao? didn’t she think for a second if your boy angesonga hiyo ingekuwa noma kwake ama she is independent?
some men are just difficult in the relationship banaa, that, once such things happens to them as ngeta, a bar fight that they lose badly, the other half feels that it was God sent.
Oh so boy wako si mtu mzuri? Got it. But still she is the wife maze. But hiyo ni noma sana.
Arrogance in the relationship . sijui @uwesmake akipigwa ngeta how shit will turn out with his wife.
You are an intelligent being, you should have been able to predict that your wife wouldnt be supportive in the pursuit of your dreams, you should have known she isn’t the kind interested in climate change, the geopolitical situations in the globe or the intricate political machinations happening right now in preparation for 2022, hizi ni vitu you look out for during the courtship period sio kumangana tu na kulala. Kubali you are alone, she is just the mother of your shildren, tosheka na hio.
For those who arent married ask yourself does that woman fit in your world? Does she understand your struggle? Your ambitions? If she does not just move on, those are the kind who run down your biz when you leave her in charge for a month ama unaenda wira in another country unatuma pesa anakula na kukunywa yote na tuben10, there are lots of other women out there, tafuta mos mos
Hii upuzi ya kuoa is really fcking up lots of men out there