The manosphere as you all know is a misogynist cult that despises women. Once I realise that you are in that demonic cult I will cut you off even if you are my own brother.
These retarded Chimpanzees keep harping about family values and negative population growth but the real reason they want you to have kids for them and will use the most gaslighting and fear mongering techniques on women to get them to have kids and stay in toxic relationshits so as not to end up as single mothers is because they want you under their control so that they can abuse you properly. Now they’re lying to women to become housewives! So that they have even more power to abuse women.
Can I give you advice on how you are going to live a stress free life as a woman?! Avoid dealing with men. These are not people but power hungry animals we are sharing the planet with. Just dodge their missiles. Just create a buffer between you and men. Buy weapons to protect you from men. Stop seeing men, stop dating, sleeping with, befriending, marrying and having children for men. Don’t give any man power over you in any way. The only way to do that is to avoid these no good dangerous demons with XY chromosomes.
Unfortunately the socialization of men is the same and in the end they all turn out to be users and abusers no matter the facade they put up as a ruse to lure you and entrap you. If domestic violence isn’t a choice but a sickness why wait until after marriage or after the woman has kids to start abusing her? Because they know what they are doing and they have the self control not to be violent until the woman is trapped.
I won’t lie that I have never experienced domestic violence because I have, I’ve been stalked and threatened with death for leaving a 3 year relationship where the possessiveness was just insane. I know mine might not seem like a big deal but I’ve seen the ugly side of men but by God’s grace I left before I got trapped. Now, in hindsight I wish someone had told me that I can live for 100 years and never date, have sex,marry, befriend and have children. In other words that I can avoid men completely through out my life and have little to no trauma in life. Either way, I got that place of having nothing to do with men eventually. And I am loving it, the peace is to die for! I wish I knew what I now know when I was a child. It’d have saved me from being threatened with death for leaving a toxic relationshit.
I’m so loving this life, I feel like a kid again - happiness, freedom,safety, security and best of all peace. Time and energy to focus on myself, I’m so lucky and blessed.The worst loneliness ever is being with a man because men are socialised to be predators and abusers and it’s very rarely that they deviate from that socialization.
In Kenya, you are in extreme danger of femicide if you fraternise with men. The age of femicide spans upto 80:years old. You are never too old to be victimised by Chimpanzees. Don’t let your guard down because you think you are older so now you can stand up for yourself better,leave earlier or have more control over the relationship now that you know men better and have wised up to them. Baby girl these Kenyan monkeys will con you,kill you and then blame you for it . My advice is to realise that men are our enemies infact they’re even enemies of other men but since men don’t care about their lives, us as women don’t want to be killed or maimed or assaulted. So get a weapon and always be wary of these creatures. Even when they’re trying to get friendly on the lift, avoid eye contact and respond with monosyllables. Take every interaction with men as a high risk situation to be escaped as soon as is humanly possible. Don’t wait to be pushed out off a high-rise office building or killed in your own home by a man you met less than 3 months earlier.Be proactive in avoiding men. It’s never too late to get away from a source of danger ,stress and toxicity! Start today and you will thank me later. Hugs 
to every woman in relationships with men. I can’t imagine the hell some of you have been through but I understand why you are struggling to leave. Brainwashing can take eons to overcome. I pray you don’t get killed before you experience the new dawn and man free era of your life as a woman.