Na miaka uko nayo ngapi?
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I lived such a life when I got a stable job, but I think that I overdid it.
At some point though, that kind of life got unappealing and I suddenly found myself craving familiarity. Therefore, I reduced my list to like 2 regular sex providers where I ended up impregnating one.
Since I moved majuu over 3 months ago, I find myself missing this lady and whenever I’m chatting with her, I get a serious boner (I don’t intend to marry her, though).
I’ve tried to check out madame na lanyes za huku lakini sipati nyege like the one I get nikiwa na huyo dame.
Sometimes, I look back at what I used to do and wonder if I’m the same man.
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Yes modernity is bad.
Unahitaji bibi akudiscipline?
Stop reacting emotionaly and analyse my statement rationaly.
Most men are natural slaves, they need structure and some constraints ama pombe, anasa na umalaya itawamaliza kama eric maigo. On a whole married men or fathers are less likely to take unnecessary risks and they save more than bachelors.
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Heheh hii story ilinichoma maini. But the answer ni utafute hobby beyond kukunywa na kutombana. Otherwise kama kazi ni kutoka job na kuingia brothel utakufa vibaya sana. Get a motorbike, nunua old jalopy ikukule kichwa
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Very true. That’s why men are encouraged to find and follow a purpose, just something to ground us.
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You fell in love with a sex worker to the point you decided to impregnate her 
. Elders mtatuonyesha mambo But I won’t judge you cause wewe ndio unajua what you saw in that girl hadi ukamkufia. For the love of God though, I hope you are taking care of an absolutely innocent party here namely the kid. Hapa inabidi umeweka huyo mama kwa planteshen, raise the kid in a proper family setting.
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And that purpose is a woman,children and their bargage they drag along.
We have drunkards, promiscuous,abusive husbands and fathers na zile ghasia za embobut.
Hii yako ni common misconceptions about bachelors.99% of men wako keg na danguro dens are miserable plantation workers.
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Its not a romantic hero’s journey but it works for most men including your parents, sio kila mtu anaweza kuwa aristole, nietzsche- syphilis from whores ilimumaliza , na isaac newton
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It wasn’t love.
Tulizoeana nikaanza dry fry (was a low hanging fruit and a good arrangement, in my judgement) and before I realized, she was pregnant.
Alikuwa anauza Simmers.
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Hehe. But the moment you impregnated her, it has now transcended waay beyond the two of you now. You could have met in space, it doesn’t matter. It’s now all about the kid.
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Alehandro bado unaenda ile church ya wale walami couple? Put a prayer request …Wakikuombea poa unaweza onekaniwa ki relationship…naona mapenzi yamekutatiza sana
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The biggest problem I have with relationships is they change. At first it is just you and your partner enjoying each other’s company. And then pregnancy happens and kids are born, suddenly the dynamics of the relationship change. Kid/kids become the center of attention and life is never the same again.
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Niliwacha. One time alianza kuspeak in tongues kama ile ya Rachel Ruto, and at that point I knew this is crap and I have ghosted him ever since. Simu inalia sishiki.
Siwezi kataa mapenzi iko na maneno. Ntaleta hekaya hivi karibuni.
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I was looking for someone thinking this way. One way or the other they will see an opportunity in him and close him off with a pregnancy.
Imagine avoiding the planteshen only to be cuffed by a lanye when you are 49 years old
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Or he wanted to recruit you to perform those fake miracles they do in churches? Sikujua walami wako na hiyo hullabaloo pia
Mfuko ikiwa mzito huwezi kaa na amani as a bachelor.
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