Lazima ujikaze hata kama huna pesa nyingi na umeoa bibi wa kitajiri. Have the pride to decline some favours from inlaws ndio wakuheshimu. Father inlaw anaweza kukusaidia na kazi au biashara ujijenge, nothing wrong with that, but usikubali kuishi kwake, akulipie rent ama aje kununua chakula kwako, au kulipia watoto wako fees. He will know you are struggling, but there will be respect.
Now where will this man put his face. Imagine going to Sonko’s house ati to ask your wife to come back home. Hata atakuchekelea akuulize ni bibi yako vipi, and he takes care of her, like you are both still children, raising other children?
If am that jamaa from now on nanyenyekea kwa huyo khupipi sumbua na babake chokosh kabisa then commence a siphoning mission. Stash as much as possible as I work on an exit strategy. Shida ni the thuggish chokosh father in law ni he may track mi down anikulishe mbegu ya kichwa
But come to think of it, sonko with all the connections mbona ange empower huyo jamaa by kumconnect job? Why give him an expensive car he can barely maintain badala amfungulie biz? Sonko pia hananga akili
Wrong answer. There is everything wrong with that. Whoever propped you on your way up owns your ass. Just marry within your class and provide ama ukubali kuwekwa. You can’t buy back your dignity by doing part of the work.