This single mother phenomena, I’d predicted a few years ago. Technology and Internet. Our parents used to communicate in the morning before work and in the evening after. Their only source of information was the newspaper, KBC in the evening, Tahamaki, Vitimbi and occasional PARENTS magazines. The only chama our mothers had were church based, if she had marital problems, anaambiwa shikilia ndoa.Our moral fabric is gone. Keeping Up with The Kardashians etc, has normalised being a single mum.
Men are wired the same, our dads did what we are doing now but on a lesser scale. Unamalizana na “ndogondogo” at the local bar which had a red telephone booth outside and go home. There were no Lounges and Pubs, No expensive whiskies unless you knew someone at AFCO. They had the occasional disco.
Nowadays, your wives go through your phones, find clande chats and run to Facebook,Kilimani Mums for advice, guess what she’ll be told by Kungurus she’s never met, probably 21 and a single mother, or some who’ve wrecked their own marriages already.
They go to chamas, drink bourbons and some discuss boyfriends they have at work," colleagues". Your wife spends more time during the day with their male “colleagues”,who compliment them every morning, than they do with you at home.
If you remove the probability of her getting caught or pregnant, she’ll get marinated (Whisky/Wine) and get pounded in some tent by that colleague at a “Team Building” in Naivasha. Nowadays women earn the same as men or more, they drive, and clearly most don’t see the need for a man when things go south, they only care about their son, Jayden.
I could go on and on, wacha niwachie hapo.
And men as well, Karma is a bitch, some things we do to this women currently, come back later in life to bite you through your daughters. My buddy was made a grandfather by 37, do the
math and probable causes.