Confirm kama alitombwa kabla anyongwe otherwise your assertion seems to blame the boy shaud for mistakes of others
Lifestyle some deaths pia victims are to blame a female hafai kunywa kupindukia rape is obvious… And deseases if Kuna gender inafaa kuwa sober it’s females
Kama aligula pesa za Mubaba mbaya lazima angezilipa kw njia moja ama nyingine. Hata kama ni mkia
Parents wame wachilia watoto wao sana ju ya i upus ya kutafuta degree…why should my daughter go and live in a hostel na niko na 3bedroom ruiru asome college iko karibu anahome kwangu kila jioni…i don’t think my dota is joining even boarding sec school in Kenya…the way this shithole has horror stories from secondary to college…wacha angangane na day skul seko akifika college aende yenye iko karibu na kwangu ata kama ni ndumberi technicall college…i only do this to protect her…she is the only confirmed seed i have in this world so fuck the system that is most likely to make me loose her or worse jaded
But you can’t protect her from the world forever God is the sole protector…even in your home I. Those colleges drugs and other influences may pull her if not well grounded spiritualy
More power to you!
Why would you want to police a grown woman. When your daughter reaches 18, you have no business intruding on her sex life. Contrary to popular belief, girls also enjoy sex.
Give your daughter a healthy space. Patia yeye nafasi ya kutombwa vizuri ili askie utamu. Rest assured if she’s pretty she’ll be getting drilled like no one’s business. Even if she’s ugly she’ll still get drilled – men have no standards these days.
The only way you can prevent her from having sex is by making her undesirable, by which I mean smelly and ugly. Smear her with excrement and make sure she walks around reeking of urine. Even then, chokoraas will still smash her smelly coochie.
are you a parent or do you intend to be one? Kama hujazaa usizae tafadhali
Parenting inataka pia mtu atembee na Mungu. But apparently parents nowadays are the same to declare bible is white man’s propaganda.
@Electronics4u delete this one too. I’m not proud of this comment. I’ve decided to start posting only serious and insightful replies.
Huwezi chunga mtu ako na akili zake gathee. She is your daughter but you don’t own her. Eventually atafanya vile anataka. The best you can do is just give her advice kazi yako inaishia hapo kama mzazi.
Negotiation & Settling of Prices for Private Parts is a vital survival skill for young girls living in a capitalist economy. The price should be agreeable to both parties, without any party feeling it is being taken advantage of.
most campus ladies are prostitutes living in denial
As a parent you do the best and the rest is on her.
But if he taught her how to navigate these issues, had a great bond then he did well. She will be okay. From his end he is doing 1,2,3 and she from her end atafanya 4,5,6 etc. She will be alright.
Hapa sasa umedinya point.
Parenting is hard. Uskue helicopter parent for your childs sake. Children are rebellious as hell kwanza wakiona unaimpose extreme rules.
They lack the experience hence the rebellion waona you are just strict because you want to control them
Best to teach them about responsibility. Actions have consequences. Alafu umwombe asipende Deno ama Kevo ama Brayo otherwise it’s beyond you.
emphasis on The maombi keep GOD closer than your spouse
True. Just do your best to raise well mannered children. Make them aware of the dangers or scenarios they will encounter.
Have candid sex education with them including contraception use.
Teach them to say no and if no is not an option, how to practice safe sex and insist on it.
Make them aware of risk of early pregnancy and single motherhood and it’s challenges.
Teach them to learn from other people’s mistakes not just their own.
Teach them/ counsel them to avoid temptation za soft life.
Then pray to whichever deity or God/gods that she heeds your advice.
When it comes to sex,I don’t think the female brain knows logic if she has seen what she desires.
As an experienced elder,I will not tire to share this wisdom: a truly loyal woman to God,in all her ways even from childhood,is the definition of the biblical ‘good woman comes from God’.
Her loyalty to God is what benefits you as a man,no cheating etc
So that elder who wants to protect his daughter,teach her Godly ways.Be rich,if you are poor you are disadvantaging her and she will have to engage in disturbing things to meet her needs
Tafazali, understand Godly ways and not this religious fanaticism allover.