I feel so lost. Who I was 2 years ago is nowhere near my current situation. Laid off in 2024, got seriously sick couldnt apply for work for 10 months because of misdiagnosis. Had to go back to shagz. Rental arrears over 400k. Girlfriend left this year. Been applying everywhere I get interviews but cant convert no matter how hard I prepare. 2 years unemployed now, no income, Wueh, nikitoka kwa hii shimo I will never misuse money again.
kama uko na game as you claim. Return to the city, enroll in these fancy gyms and target well to do corporate ladies. Itikia tu wakulishe( eka kiburi chini) and dickimatize them. Con them mercilessly and start a business..A dickimitazed lady can even give you all her savings..Ocha hakuna form. Itikia tu kua mwanaume malaya for some time as you plan yourself
Enyewe alitumia pesa vibaya, nka amerudishwa class ya financial management, hio class wengi hu score D minus, they hardly graduate. I’m hoping he will do well and pass all the exams. Otherwise atarudia hizo classes. Ni ngumu sana juu zinadai tution fee…
Ulifikisika ukamjua mkeo. Ni landlord mgani huyo anakubali ukuwe na rent arrears za 400k unless your rent was something like 150k+.
Kwa sector ya wanawake inakuwanga until money do us part. Women love on condition that you provide. You have been red pilled to the gills right now umesoma female nature.
So you basically pay 100k+ a month in rent? @Yuletapeli angekwambia ushike 50 by 100 Kamulu uangushe maisonette. Haungekuwa na hizi mashida saa izi. Sasa umerudi ushago. Ukipata pesa next time, make sure you own a home in the city. At least Nairobi you can hustle without a landlord knocking on your door. Pole sana lakini. 400k in rent arrears boss ni a very fly lifestyle for that shithole.
Kiongos wacha kupeana morio wetu. Hebu imagine ameokotana na @TrumanCapote kwa hizo gym. Si kijana atakuja kusumbua Sisi ni poison effective ya kujiua haraka.
Kijana ajitume Tu mjengo.
I’ve been in your predicament twice, in fact a lot worse than you. At least ulikua shags. I. Will advice you a couple of things. Whatever your career is, make sure you are current on all the certifications. 2nd study a new trade. Badala ya kukaa ktalk na pornhub siku nzima, ingia youtube and learn something marketable. It doesn’t take but 3 months to learn something that pays you. Ingia ata panel beating na makanika, bora inalipa. I learnt how to do electrical work, and I got jobs that literally saved my life. Story for another day.
But Kama image is your priority, one year from today, utalia ujapata job for 3 years. And it will get harder then.
Elder you just lazy ama hautaki kushuka class. Kukua waiter, soja, lanye hata hawker wa smokie ni kazi. Kazi ni mingi huku nje. Change your mentality your situation will change
Pole kaka, but be strong, things will come back and be well for you, hata mimi nilikula two years unemployment 2015 - 2018, then one day from one of those many jobs I was applying, one I did not expect or know anyone nikapata phone call when I was busy selling makaa huko ocha. Things turned around for me and my family. Do not give up, you will one day look back at the experiences you have gained. There is always a silver lining. For me, learned to save for a rainy day, and got to know much about people and “friends”. As long as you and family are now healthy, shukuru mungu. Hata ukiwa na pesa, poor health is the worst thing that can happen.