Where do women get this energy? Dating Achia under 40 . After 40 focus on your health,wealth, building your relationship with God and your family and travelling after retirement. Mambo ya ndoa after you are used to walking around your house naked and doing whatever you want for over 20 years is impossible. Don’t even bother dating. Just block . Hio ndio KAZI ukisha hit wall. Block.Block.Block. You are too old for this bullshit . Let 20 year olds do it they still have the energy. Focus on better things with a better return on investment. Men are a waste of time and energy. Just leave them alone. They approach, you block and block and block. End of story. The only relationship you should have with men right now is utility relationship. How they can carry things for you,run your errands and provide services. No more. No less . If you are dating Kenyan men be ready to be murdered on top of all the other garbage 
men bring with them. Don’t end up being beaten to death in your own house like that Citibank lady who moved to London and started seeing a Kenyan man. You don’t need men for connection and attention or whatever it is you think you are looking for. Men are users and abusers. Kenyan men are killers too. So block these Chimpanzees like your life depends on it coz it really does. That woman was barely 3 months in the dating scene before she was bludgeoned to death by a Kenyan guy. In London. Our men are damaged, broken and deranged. They will kill you if you entertain them bcz of how entitled they are. If you want to die a natural death keep off these Chimpanzees. I’ve never known the level of peace and security I’ve known since I made up my mind to steer clear of 
Chimpanzees completely. My health is amazing. I sleep like a baby. Don’t remember the last time I cried. It’s just amazing. This life of addiction to men is dangerous. Especially with Kenyan men it’s way worse. Just keep off completely, ABIT hard at first but ukizoea it’s peace and bliss all the way to paradise. God’s peace sisters.
