It ALWAYS ends in betrayal. Boys will be boys! If you can’t deal with that, just keep off men completely.
And remember that having their offspring ties you to them forever. So if you want to be able to move on fully don’t have their kid bcz that means that they will never be out of your life fully. A piece of them will be with you until you die. Don’t fall for the love bombing. Men are evil and calculating. Just like Satan they hate us and want to humble us by destroying our lives,our reputation and our happiness and self worth! Leave them alone and live your stress free, drama and disease free life.