so guys there was this thread by @Azor Ahai about ( Married men ). So here is a full 4D of the guy I was talking about. This guy has been my friend as long as I can remember. FFW a few years down the line we were hustling with this guy pale yaya centre for a certain Indian guy at a car yard. So pale sisi kama legit brokers deals zikiiva tulikua tunanukisha kitunguu mbaya. Anyway tukiwa apo kila mtu alijipanga na life seriously tho’ pombe hatungeacha weekends. Still hustling at the same place the guy got a good deal and bought his first car a subaru impreza. Ninja ikaamia Ruaka IBR na kila mtu akasaka form zingine za kumake dooh. Luckily the guy again got his first job as per his qualifications. ( white collar ) and he started living lavish. During their seminars he met this beautiful kamba lady na si kila mtu akona job akaamua mbaya mbaya nishaa fika. So wakafunga pingu za maisha after 1.8 years of dating. The lady moved in with the guy and they were blessed with a baby girl. Now 4 months ago the guy approached me at the church compound aty his wife wants them to move out and shes expecting another baby early next year. Out of all this time we were still going to st. Austins parish in Msongari. Infact we started as youth till yma. So after every second mass we assemble at the hall etc. So that particular day we never went and he invited me we talk pale njugunas safaricom while the wife went for womens meeting and thought bado pia sisi tumeenda yetu. So we had limited time let’s say an hour. He started mama cate anataka tuame aki, aty tuende 2 bdr alafu we change some old furnitures to new ones. Kazi yake ni kuni direct what shall be done. C you know she never buys anything apart from shopping tu. Everything else is on me ata now I have less than 400K left in my savings. ( alafu @Kimakia and his brigade thinks that’s alot of money ) The guy was very worried and his girl will be joining school soon na aty the mother wants her to join Shani Taji pale James gichuru where fees is not less than 20K for a kindergarten. He added that he’s facing alot of pressure mara holiday mombasa end year ooh they should go see the wife’s paros in Matuu. At that rate the guy has no side hustle only relying salary alone. He even stopped using his car to go to work. Now someone tell me isn’t marriage a scum???. Huyu jamaa kama angeoa tungekua tu tunachipo young campus lanyes very cheaply as our a/c keeps growing bellies. Now look at him , a depressed guy getting old as his wife piles tons of pressure on him. Guy even lost weight massively. I still trust & believe it’s team MGTOW forever ama aje @tall mnyama everywhere
That is what being a man of the house is about. Wazee walizoea kitambo. Huyo ako afadhali anafanya shopping. 20k ni pesa gani mtoto kusoma. 20k? 20 fucking k? Heheheeee… There is nothing inaendelea hapo.
Isipokuwa your wife hawezi kukuambia mahali utaishi. Akianza hivyo, mwambie achukue matako apeleke pale anajisikia ametosheka. Fakit. Sio kukwambia ati utaishi wapi aje. Isitoshe akikupata ulikuwa unaishi vile. She can go fuck herself.
Bibi nilimpiga ball 2008 aka move in and I have never regretted that move four kids down the line . mahari nilisema Ni hekaya ma auncles na ma aunties wataendelea kupiga pale karatina mpaka nikuwe senator ndio tumalizane .
Hizo zote ni stress na shida za kujiletea.Kwani hajui kusema NO.
The only thing I would support hapo ni a 2 bedroom house ranging from 20- 27k coz there is need to have an extra room for mboch na visitors.
If he faces the wife amwambie hizo madai zingine ziko kwa ndoto zake,atajipanga.Viti wanunulie seat covers,why buy new recliners when kids are small.The urchins tend to be very destructive then waharibu viti mpya.
The 400k can stand in for him akitafuta zingine if he only get the balls to be a man in the relationship.[SIZE=1]Lakini akikuwa ngumu sana atawachwa kama mimi baada ya kukataa kulipia bratha in law school fees pale Strathmore College[/SIZE]
Eti mngekuwa mnachipo young campus lanyes very cheaply? so you think people marry to get sex, implying that you think those getting married are deprived of sex, suggesting that you think that once married, you are always on top of your wife, as a result, you want to value marriage in monetary terms?
By the way, what is the point of making all the money if you have no dependants?
Then you have one serious problem, trusting what your friends tell you. Information like that given to you by your friend freely is never true.
Maze kuna kitu huyo jamaa amekosa kwa ndoa. Communication. Maze hizo hata sio shida. I know a guy who’s wife alienda akanunua furniture under his name anapata hao iko fully furnished na haikuwa ya pesa kidogo. This was a week after he had got a promotion.