There is an emerging dangerous trend. Someone showed me a video where a man, disappeared in 1966 reappeared at the family home. Put differently, your father disappears in 1966 then reappears in 2023! On one extreme end, he might come back with some property. His coming back can also offer kin a sense of closure. On the other extreme end, he is back because he is poor and needs social support. There in lies the problem. It is immoral to run away at your youth only for you to show face when you are no longer useful. So unakuja kusumbua watu and take away property through your treatment? That is one selfish fuaka who must be ignored and punished.