@Pastorde is trying to warn you guys in a way that someone who hasn’t been through that lifestyle cannot. Listen to him
For those who are sexually inexperienced, do not go down that path to become an ‘expert’. There’s no trophy or medal for sexual prowess, maybe worthless virtual points when you narrate it to your drinking buddies or anonymous strangers on ktalk. It’s only release of hormones for a few minutes followed by regret. You are better off remaining celibate and focused, and when you’re ready, find a well-behaved virgin girl and start building your family. By looking for that exciting woman good in bed, trying to impress them with your sex ‘expertise’, you’ll only find one unable to pair bond. Next tutaona hekaya yako hapa papa.
Toward the end of your days, the thing you’ll be most happy about is being able to bring up a happy and united family.
This has long been inconclusive. Or do point out where the research outcome was conclusive. The cited study used the worst form of data gathering - questionnaires. It is hyped because it is sensational - ejaculation prevents prostrate cancer.
Leave them alone, wakiendelea they will be a group of old regretful men in their sunsets, walking into the shopping centres in the village to read Taifa Leo that they won’t afford.
I believe the Bible, and when I read Proverbs Chapter 7, it should scare anyone. The ending is not a good way
Think of ejaculation as ‘manness’ or male energy leaving your body. By retaining your semen, you become a more focused man and a more sober man. Energy that’s is strong enough to create life is energy that’s strong enough to do a lot other things. Eg great sportsmen avoid sex before competitions to keep the male energy accessible at will. It also makes you see women for what they are, just partners for mating . The illusion of ooh she is so hot or so out of my league slowly fades away with semen retention. You can approach any woman as long as it’s realistic, using logic like a man should. The opposite is wanking and everyone knows the results, from low drive in life to mental mess.
