One of the most underrated skills is knowing how to socialize with other people and be likeable enough to get what you want. As I grow older, I have seen people who had no technical skills or experience scale to significant heights just because they knew what to say to the right people and how to act around them. Heck, even crooks like Pastor Ng’ang’a know exactly what to tell peasants so that he can walk away with 10% of the town’s income. He understands that his business is to sell hope in exchange for cold hard cash every Sunday. Being likeable and respectable gives access to opportunities. People will buy from your business just because they like and respect you. In my home town I knew a “successful” guy but I never quite understood why people bought from his business despite his products being a little bit more expensive than competitors. But the dude would attend all local funerals and help grieving families. He was building his brand - hiding in plain sight.
Ukiwa fala lanye wa calabash ata kuuzia punch
Ruto is one such CUNT
Facts, and public speaking. Very many are really poor at this. Our school system needs to work in this. If you ever work in an international organisation or company utaona difference.
I don’t attend events unless I’m guaranteed to speak with a few exceptions obviously. That has been my MO lately. In every situation there are winners and losers. At any event, winners are seated in the shade at the tent sipping sparkling water. Losers are burning in the sun. Mimi kama siko kwa tent I don’t honor the invitation.
It’s the natural thing to do if you are an ambitious guy. Those ocha guys keep a record of your attendance of such events. Siku moja it will pay major dividends upewe ata cheo hukua unatarajia.
This is how I found myself on the board of our local school juu ya kua social na majirani nikiwa ocha
I agree totally and completely
I largely disagree with your Reddit and AI philosophies but on this i agree with you.