Men only care about your past or present when they don’t want you. Wakikutaka they ask their wife to deliver 800k furniture while in 5 star hotels in Diani after flying you first class. They marry you in a week while ignoring the women who give them children. Your exe whose baby you aborted still wants you back. Wanaume wasikupatie pressure about your so called past. They will do anything for you if they want you even if you are the great whore of Babylon. Standards are for women they feel ambivalent about!