there’s this notion that a husband and a wife should continue staying in a crappy relationship “for the sake of the kids.”
I say bullshit.
The kids will see the crazy shit going on and think it is normal. They’ll see your wife throwing dishes at your head and assume its normal.
Not only that, but it will affect them badly. Even if there is no dish getting thrown, kids are not so stupid. They can instinctively tell that things are not well.
So do not normalize that shit. It will lead to your kids developing poor relationships in future.
Your kids might end up kama mkamba mjinga illiterate @PHARMACY.