The hurt and rage I’m feeling right now are completely unbearable. He has epilepsy, and he completely tricked me into marrying him.
We were together for almost four years, and he somehow managed to conceal his condition from me the entire time.
There was absolutely no sign or hint that he was unwell. He never had a single seizure while we were dating. I have no idea how he kept it such a deep secret; I never even saw any of his medication.
When we first met, I had dropped out of school after losing my mom. Life became incredibly difficult, and I had started selling tomatoes just to get by. He was the one who suggested I pursue nursing and then sponsored my entire education. I am now a working nurse because of him. During that time, I was extremely busy with my studies. He had me registered in a different town, so I mostly only visited on weekends. We barely spent any time together.
Just one month after our wedding, he had a seizure right in our house. I was shocked and absolutely terrified. We were simply talking, and all of a sudden, he collapsed onto the floor, shaking uncontrollably, with foam coming from his mouth. We were totally alone, and I panicked, running out of the house immediately to call his neighbors for help.
Once he recovered, he actually got angry at me for calling the neighbors and humiliating him
Seriously, who has the right to be angry here? Even his whole family knew about his health problem, and not a single person ever said anything to me. I truly do not believe I can live with such a terrible deception, and I don’t want to stay in this marriage. Furthermore, I don’t want to risk having children who could inherit this condition. I’m just so glad I’m not pregnant and we don’t have kids yet
Please, I just need to know: If this a strong enough reason to get a divorce? Our Catholic church is telling me that because the marriage is complete, we cannot get an annulment or a divorce. I refuse to accept that answer. Honestly, I don’t even care what the church says at this point. I am completely finished with this marriage.
I didn’t agree to this, Julius. I didn’t! 
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