Men don’t give you anything for free, they pay you for your body,your uterus, your time, your energy, your labor, your youth, even your very life( if you have given birth you understand that children are received from the gates of death) . Even when it is your father, your mother will always be the one paying for you to get whatever you got. Don’t you EVER forget that as a woman. A provider is a person who wants nothing in return. That’d be your mother( try being disabled or jailed and see how fast your father turns against you bcz he raised you in return for something that you can no longer offer him) , Mother Earth and other female entities. A man can never and will never be a provider, don’t let the patriarchy deceive you because this is how men bait women by pretending to be providers then once the woman is trapped they withdrew all the Providence and turn you into their work mule. As president of Atheists society of Kenya aptly puts it, men want two things from a woman, free labour and to control you.
Ofcourse watapeana bcz they’ve been brainwashed since they could walk with prince charming fairytales of men rescuing them. Rapunzel. Cinderella. Sleeping beauty. Name it. Look at Amber Ray, she’s with a man calling himself Tajiri but when she gave birth,she had to leave her baby and go tweak in clubs to make money to maintain their lifestyle. Men are conmen and marriage is the greatest scam ever created. You pay your own way then you pay the man’s way so that you can look happily married.
They’ll wake up to reality eventually, as Wole Sonyinka says, it is morning, whenever you will wake up. May God protect them until then.
Mimi crush wangu campus was the campus hoe, i had no idea cause i used to commute. That girl looked like a saint, nilikuwa nimemkufia vibaya sana. shy and self esteem in the gutters and she could sense that, alinifanyisha upuzi sana ndio hata nikaribie honey pot. Meanwhile she was the campus whore, i was later warned nikae mbali sana na yeye. I was of good heart and genuine intentions but aliniona boring then.
Nikimaliza campus, my acne cleared kidogo, some beard na confidence ikapanda, alianza kuona other chics approach me akaanza vurugu, nilimwandikia kama a whole page of teen like angst message telling her we are done…
Juzi, back from Canada now 28, a friend shows me her IG page, amekuwa feminist, she makes videos exactly like this above, “ati the Woman who gave everything still get cheated on” sijui #childfree .
Whoring is a trauma response like drinking and doing drugs in case you didn’t know. It’s only men who are driven by their raw sexual urges to the extent of sleeping with animals, animals and fellow men as happens in jail.
Being battle hardened is actually a good thing,if I qqqhadn’t seen what women go through especially after getting kids I’d probably be miserable in some Chimpanzees house right now but luckily I learnt from the experience of others before I did something stupid like getting married, when I was about to get Pg and become a single mother God stopped me by giving me sleepless nights when I sleep very well unless something is bothering me. On seeking counsel from pastors they all disagreed with me on this, so I just relaxed and eventually I found perfect peace.
That aside, can you help me understand WHY MEN LOVE STALKING THEIR EXES???!!!
Why are you stalking someone who you dated over 10 years back? Looks like your insecurities never left with your acne, that’s why you are always trying to show us how you’ve been sleeping with women left and right. Are you also short? Look ! You need to leave your exes alone and you need therapy. Hoping that your exe is miserable so that you can feel better about yourself or feel superior is a sign of low self esteem and that’s why I never date men who are not good looking coz they’re very insecure.
STOP STALKING YOUR EXES FROM OVER 10 YEARS AGO! ITS TIME TO MOVE ON!
This is why I avoid exes like satanic entities, they’re just so bitter, if they could kill you and get away with it they would. Why do you stalk someone’s social media pages, like huna KAZI ya kufanya. Exes ni watu wengine toxic Sana, very bitter. This is a perfect example. Ukiachana na MTU achana na yeye kabisa. This is why if I see a male exe coming my way I dodge hawa watu machungu wanakuanga nazo they can even poison you. Imagine a woman even left the country and you are still stalking her 20 years later? Hii ni ugonjwa gani? By the way ukiniletea those so called “updates” za exes tunakosana vibaya sana na wewe coz kwanini unanirudisha nyuma? People move on Bwana. If I wanted to keep up with your life I could have married you. Kama nilikuacha staki ata kujua ukifariki.
Kuna Mahali imekugusa sindio? Take it easy there’s plenty of delusional women who can be your slaves, wacha wale hawawezani wa enjoy their soft lives. No worries about fees. Living like a pauper only to end up with an unemployed graduate like Albert Ojwang’s father.
Capote… ukishindwa na jambo hufai kusema ni mbaya. Unatosheka na vile umeamua si kusaka wafuasi. Sahi kuna mwanamke ako kanisa anaomba apate buana, kuna mwanaume anasaka bibi.. hii injili yako itafika mahali kweli.. anza ku wish wana ndoa all the best si kucheza ki saitanically.. kuwaombea mabaya ndio ubaki ukisema “siniliwaambia”
Ukichengwa kubali madam.. still there is hope.. nakusakia junguu.. wewe tulia wacha kuniharakisha jameni..
Nini imenichenga? Utumwa? We ishi vizuri na mtumwa wako bila kusumbua wale walishindwa na slavery . You people make videos about marriage all the time kwa nini hamtosheki na uamuzi wenu munashinda mukituonyesha ? Why should a few videos about why women should avoid marriage affect you? Unless kuna kaukweli hamtaki wanawake wengine waskie? If you are not saying the truth wafuasi watatoka wapi? Why should it bother you if it’s nonsensical?
The lady who was killed with her 2 kids, alienda Katoloni prayer mountain to pray for her husband. Wacha hao wanaombea kanisani. God gave you a brain to think not to waste His time praying nonsensical prayers na kuna watu wako na legit needs He needs to answer. After 2 weeks kwa prayer mountain praying and fasting, the man Major Mugure killed her and their 2 kids. Prayers are for important things not utakua mtumwa wa nani. Even when I was stupid enough to think men were worth something even a thought never crossed my mind ATI niombee Bwana . Mwanaume ni kitu ya kuombea sasa? A source of heartache and pain? Every year I go up the mountain to pray and fast for 2 weeks hakuna siku ata moja nishaiombea mwanaume other than my father. All these years since I became an adult. Of all the good things you can ask God for, ni slave driver utaombea? Unajua atimes ata Mungu hushanga Sana. Uombee mwanaume akuoe then after kuolewa ushinde kwa pastor counselling,ushinde ukilia kwa Choo za ofisi, urudi tena kulilia ndoa uliomba Mungu akupatie. I mean let’s stop joking with God. Ukitaka kuingia utumwani be ready for mateso. Acha kusumbua Mungu tena na ni we mwenyewe ulijitakia.
Hata huyu aliombea ndoa adi akafunga kwa Mlima. Shetani aliskia Sana hio maombi and this were the results. Badala aombee pesa ya kulea watoto aliomba warudiane na Bwana. Usicheze na maombi.
Kuna story niliona ati there was a time there were only 1,200 people na walijaza ulimwengu. Saa hii ata ulimwengu uko overloaded. Nyinyi zaeni adi you replace the deficit of Sisi tulikataa kuzaa. We need people to pay these loans Kasongo is taking left and right. At least when God takes me I won’t be worried about leaving my offspring in this shit hole world. Alafu whatever I will have acquired by then it will return to my father’s house sio kujenga kwa wengine.
