Yes. I told you most people you meet online are psychos. No sane man is on the internet looking for a serious relationship. The internet is full of psychopaths. Stop online dating ladies. Date people you meet in real life. Mambo ya online Achia Matara.
Number 2 this was a first date. Tulisema all dates should be in a public place with many people so that if the man goes ballistic upige tuu nduru. Don’t be lured to anywhere private or isolated. Don’t even go to their offices like that girl who was thrown out of a 9th floor window and can’t have kids after breaking her leg and pelvis after declining sexual advances of a man who bought her chips.
Number 3 once you realise that all this man is after is sex, pretend to have received emergency calls or feign illness. Make another date in the future,once you are out of danger or out of their sight ,block them every where.
Nobody is telling young women this but men below 50 have been radicalised that women must give them sex by a cult called red peels. They are encouraged to be animalistic and entitled. If you notice a man having a bad attitude, being rude and rushing you to bed just stay calm,give him another date and then ghost him completely by blocking him everywhere.
My friend, where things have reached now,men have declared war with women. If you joke, you will die before your time. Since it’s now a matter of life and death, you must be very keen on the signs of a man who is in this cult of usually frustrated men. If you just see a small sign of narcissism , you quickly but calmly withdraw and then you ghost completely. You are dealing with a demon so there’s no going back unless you are suicidal.
Please ladies you are hurting your parents by dying prematurely acheni mambo ya wanaume I beg you. There’s no difference between these men of nowadays and a terrorist from Alshabab or Alqueda. Their mission is to suicide bomb women. They kill you to prove that they are not simps then they go to jail to be raped. Cult is a no win situation. It’s lose lose but the woman is the biggest loser.
Right now I’m even ready with a knife at work coz I am not trusting any man anymore. It’s either I kill you or you kill me but I will not be a hapless victim to cult members who want to destroy women’s lives for their own self aggrandisement. Others start by love bombing you or what they call marinating you- if it’s too good,think thrice. You just make sure that you stay in busy public places and watch your drink. These beasts are drugging women too.
Meanwhile if you haven’t been a victim yet,stay vigilant, don’t get emotionally entangled, have your very sharp knife,if the need arises stab deep in the jugular. Make sure the bleeding is too profuse for him to make it out alive coz if he lives he will definitely kill you. So kill him first and you will be safer. It’s his life or yours. This men don’t feel sympathy for you so don’t feel any for them. Treat them with the contempt they deserve. Before they kill you,kill them first and save your life. Hakuna kubembeleza hizi nugu anymore. It’s WAR.
