I’m a radical feminist but from time to time I borrow men’s brains, I ask myself, what would a man do? We have all left a cult we were born into called the patriarchy! As feminists! Ile brain damage tuko nayo thanks to being brainwashed from birth is extensive before your spirit and emotions catch up,if they ever will, use a man’s brain. The collective male psyche. Use it. Ask yourself would a man do this? Thankfully some of us are not in the plantation and don’t have children. All we have to deal with in our journey out of patriarchal brainwashing is ourselves and it’s still hard. It’s a struggle to love yourself,center yourself, feel entitled, be selfish, be unapologetic even with this our big age, kutoka kwa cult si mchezo. Look at Pastor Mackenzie people brainwashed for less than 10 years and they’re still trying to starve themselves to death. Sisi we have decades of brainwashing, we need to be admitted in hospital for a year to heal all the damage the patriarchy has done to us.
I will tell you this, if the patriarchy hasn’t apologised for gaslighting you all your life and the narcissistic abuse it’s put you through, you don’t owe anyone except God an apology and explanation about anything you have ever done no matter how bad. There’s nothing bad you’ve done that can come anywhere near what the patriarchy has done to you and all other women. Infact anything bad you have done as a woman is courtesy of how patriarchal brainwashing has damaged you so that you can’t think straight or make good decisions. You’ve been suffering narcissistic abuse all your life - it’s a miracle you haven’t gone on a rampage and killed several people. Whatever you did, blame it on the devil which really is the patriarchy.