Are those signs and symptoms of loneliness?
Since i was a kid been told by family i have been having inability to connect with others on a deeper, more intimate level. … at 29yrs still is not able at all. Just indoors 24/7 thanks God i have resources dont need to work at all for the coming 10plus years.
am i alone?
Who is ‘others’?
Nah really.
People = Shit
You don’t need them, kijiji is where true friends are.
Strangers who make your day. No hypocrisy. Unacheka unajisahau.
Sandsana elders.
Friends are “family” that we choose… Heard that from some movie
uko na maana gani?
Hauko alone I have 4 close friends tu watu tunasaidiana ki biz etc. Mimi hua na simu mbili moja ya clients na other"friends" na ingine ya close family and my closest friends. Hata hao hahwawezi kukupatia my 0722 number watakupatia hio ya airtel. Nikidecide sitaki kusumbuliwa na simu naacha hio ya airtel home nimezima nabeba ya saf.
:D:D:D…hope hii lingua unaiwacha hapa usitumie huko nje
Lugha ya kijiji inabaki tu hapa.
Though kuna ghazeti ya Nairobians sijui kama editor ni talker hapa juu ana export words coined in Ktalk.
I recommend you read this book
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There’s a difference between being lonely and alone…I am at by my “liveliest” when am by myself or when I am with people who are at my wavelength which is super super rare…most of the time am lonely when in company of people, family members coz we are at different wavelengths…I lost the only family member who we were sharing the same wavelength and life has never been the same ever in terms of connection with family…so well am fine by being by myself
Imekua kwa readiing list since last year…havent come around to starting it yet.
Uko roysambu bado?
Definitely not
It’s been 12 years since I last had a friend.
Karen my fren Karen
yes. I would say that it is signs of loneliness. Don’t be a lonely lizard like “Rango.” [SIZE=1](By the way Rango is one of them classic animated movies[/SIZE]) hata friends wa kubandika bana… Unaingia 3rd flr and you dont even have someone you can call a friend? This boggles my mind coz I mean, primary school, highschool, college, campus and even in the hood you couldnt manage to get one? Jaribu ku-socialize hata kama ni ngumu aje kwako. You can’t rely on the resources you are referring to increase your sense of happiness and well-being. You need people, and not just your immediate family.
Hello con artist
I only have 3 too,naweza kuongeza kwa list?
You’re alright.
You’re just an introvert. My guess is that ulienda bording early like me.
I can make friends but I don’t like when they get too close and in my personal space.
My two cents is look for groups who share your interests or hobbies online with an offline link up once in a while. Like those guys who go trekking /mountain climbing. Chase meet Ups… Kina Bundu rovers if you have a good 4x4 and like camping and very long drives.
Your network is you net worth
Without a network of people your net worth is much less, not financial worth BUT as a human.
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