I came across your website with insightful articles in relation to relationships.
I have a scenario which am considering, am currently in a come we stay marriage ,we have a 3-year old daughter.However our relationship seems to be on the rocks.
My wife had a kid whom she left with her mother back in shags , I think he’s almost 10 years, she has never talked or say anything to me about the kid.I met her mother and siblings but nobody has ever said anything to me.
now if I file for my daughter custody based on the argument the mother already has another kid whom she absconded parental duties along time ago even before we met, what are my chances,but I want the mother out since she’s using the kid as a leverage.
We Rocks man fanya hivi. Pata mdem chapa maji, then hide it from your baby mama for twenty years. By that time reveal it just to make sure your other kid and her kid don’t marry each other. Coz problem itakua kwa dowary. Come to think of it you can allow them to marry each other and ask for a hefty dowary. After all they don’t have any blood relationship. Thus they will not sire niendathols.
Scratch a liar, you’ll find a thief…umeishi kuenjosika na kunguru, hoping for you to take in hiyo mbwa mwitu or else…which I won’t bother guessing is the root of your current domez. It has to be clear; a lie told earlier has the same outcome as the truth discovered later–thing is, no one said it is gonna be an easy exit though, but it’s got to done plain & square; either that or you’re a goner.