They say I am very mean then they leave me alone. Some think I am crazy to turn down ‘opportunities’ . They know married women are more likely to give in than single ones anyway . I have lost alot of opportunities but God has been faithful. One guy who was particularly Predatory said of me, I can swear that she is how she was from her mother’s womb. Even these man whores respect women who say no. Men admire principles and integrity especially in women bcz women are very vulnerable. There was a boss of mine who asked me out for a whole year every Friday. I always told him I had plans. He then sent some one to reason with me so that I don’t lose such a ‘golden opportunity’. But they know generous vs mean ladies. They do merry go round with generous wives of people. They usually do it in the office bcz they don’t want to be seen together. They lock offices or travel out of time. A former CS told me that he’d get a lucrative job for me but I had to meet him at night. I never spoke to him again. Another one calls me his wife and I take it in my stride so long as you are a woman you will always come across men who want to take advantage of you. With time they give up and respect you. You may not get perks but it’s worth it, to not have a clear conscience, fear diseases and having a bad reputation.
It seams that reputation doesn’t even matter. These married women that give it up, do they end up getting promotions or is it all a game? If you give it up to a boss, of course he will tell all the men in the office. So then with that reputation, can one get another promotion?