GENTLEMEN, we need to talk about your performance in the bedroom.

Chances are you think you’re pretty good at sex, and your clever partner probably makes all the right sounds in all the right places so your ego gets a boost.

Yup, there’s a fair chance she’s faking it.

A study from the United States has revealed four in five women — 81.6 per cent, to be precise — actually don’t orgasm from penetrative sex.

That’s not to say women don’t enjoy the missionary position; just that in most cases, it’s not going to get her rocks off.

It’s a huge contrast to men, who typically orgasm 95 per cent of the time.

The research, conducted by Indiana University’s School of Public Health and published in the Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy, aimed to fill the gap between public understanding of female orgasms and actual science.

“The study results challenge the mistaken, but common, notion that there are universal ‘sex moves that work’ for everyone,” said author Brian Dodge.

“On the other hand, the data also make clear that there are certain styles of touch that are more commonly preferred by women, emphasising the value of studying sexual pleasure — and not just sexual problems”.

About four in five women actually don’t orgasm from penetrative sex. Picture: iStockSource:istock

Researchers spoke to a representative sample of 1055 women between the ages of 18 and 94, and recorded their preferences for the pressure, shape and pattern of touch that has the highest chance of causing an orgasm.

Data proved that just 18.4 per cent of women were able to orgasm from penetrative sex, whereas almost three quarters revealed they much preferred clitoral stimulation.

Sexologist Dr Nikki Goldstein told news.com.au it’s important to consider the findings in relation to our society’s religious and cultural values.

“I believe the fact that 80 per cent of women prefer having clitoral orgasms doesn’t mean they can’t have a (vaginal) orgasm, just that one is easier than the other,” she said.

“We are a penetrative society. It stems from religion, that sex is primarily to procreate, and that’s the way to do it.

“Therefore, we’re brought up with the idea that sex means a penis into a vagina, but those views don’t necessarily coincide with our anatomy.

“Do we educate women? Yes, but we also need to educate men.”

She said the reality is sex is so much more than just intercourse.

There’s a lot science is yet to reveal about the female sexual body. Picture: iStockSource:istock

“Men’s egos are attached to their ability to give a woman an orgasm. There’s a few things wrong with that, because women need to be in charge of their sexual pleasure as well, but some guys are getting things wrong in the first place.

“The clitoris makes it easier to have orgasms, but it also takes away from the penis. Men are, of course, really attached to their penises.

“We need to educate both genders as to what orgasms mean for women.”

However, thought she said studies such as this may effect change for a small percentage of the population, she doesn’t expect mainstream bedroom habits to change any time soon.


Leta hii topic jioni it’s fucking lunch time.


Disclaimer: It doesn’t necessarily express the opinion of the poster.

But I wonder,how can men tell if a woman is faking an orgasm? Since according to this post majority fake it and cant orgasm without clitoral stimulation or through penetrative sex alone!

I don’t want to ask ladies if this is true bcz it probably is!


Vile megaking amesema


Nataka tupate solutions mapema ndio by Leo jioni 80+1 wapewe orgasms!!!


Ata Leo Mimi nitakuchokoza sweetheart.
Wewe huwa unapata? Ngapi hivi per session? :wink:


first of all have you ever experienced an orgasm? if yes then without the aid of copy-pasting from Google tell us how your orgasm felt, otherwise tunataka kuona EPL


Leo mnatarajia NNE pia against Southampton?
Naelekea tao @ 2pm.what time is the game…?

Something is seriously wrong somewhere.


Soton lazima tupige kama Burukenge, Game yetu ni 5pm if am not wrong, pitia Keg den tuione

How i tell… If you feel the puthy walls making suckn like movements… Ujue umepiga jackpot. Hizo nduru na kuambiwa fk me! fke me huwa tu ni motisha …


Nitarudi kudeal na hii topic nikishika jaba na glenfiddich


Bora si ile keg den ya white skins. Hao hawawes nipa orgasms baadaye. :stuck_out_tongue:


Unakuanga frisky iyo design

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What a messy combination


Keg den ya tao

Isn’t this what Maurice Matheka was teaching the other day?:confused:


I am just trying to stay in context of the thread.

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