Acquaintance is someone who you met at some point in your life And once the interaction ended that is the only thing you know about them
Elders wa Kijiji ni acquaintances
Many people don’t realize that they have a lot of friends and relatives who are acquaintances.
People who don’t know your latest wellbeing and can’t put any effort to call, text or have a physical meeting are just useless in your life
Mimi hujua beshte ni msee ana invest their time and money to hangout. Kama hauja muona siku mingi that means Ako na circle of people who they invest their free time na hauko hapo.
I have experienced many cases where Unapata msee has never called you for than 6 months but when you make the effort to see how they are doing unasikia mashida zao zote alafu ana kuomba doo
Personally siwezi kusaidia because since you didn’t bother to check on me for more than 6 months inamaanisha you have a circle of people who you share your problems so endelea nao
Very true, msee anakusaka wakati wanadai mbesha…siku hizi nimekuwa very mean, huwa najiuliza saa zile yuko fine kimbosho mbona huwa aniambii yuko maftani…hata anirushie za kahawa basi nijue yuko fine…niskie fiti. Ananisaka tu saa zile yuko juu ya dimanga…after months. Akwende!! Huwa sichukui nangos. Ananitext…kweli nilikukosea…(hehe) upuss sana. Namsho Ile pesa anataka ndio niko nayo mbele na nyuma, ananiuliza kwani biz ya mat inakupeleka aje, namsho hata ilitoshea mfuko last year na nkamaliza pesa. Anaboeka.
Sasa nilishakuwa mjanja, msee kama huyo akinipigia namsho amefanya poa kuni call hata nadai anirushie kakitu…anaboeka.
Mimi husema ukipiga mboka, hio Doo unapata ni jasho yako. Always jipatie priority before anyone else. Usikose kukula nyama na chapo lunch juu pipi anasema hakuna unga ya sembe Kwa keja. Since pipi ndio anadai unga apige mboka kama wewe. The world won’t end because haujanunua unga. Lenga stress kesi baadaye
Kumbe outside of malayas uko na akili? Yes, most people are just acquaintances. Kuna watu in uni after wamegraduate didn’t bother to call me juu they had their jobs na mimi bado nilikuwa chuo (I had to take a semester off lakini si unajua watu hufikiria you’re done for if you defer) so I was very useless to them. For years hawakuwahi nitafuta like the old days. That’s when I learned that some people are just friends of convenience.
Many years later niko na profile wazimu sana. The same people message me on LinkedIn asking for referrals and shiet and I ignore them kabisa. Kwanza after coming to Canada napiga photoshoots vizuri with my new buddies and new Canadian bitches na post pale Instagram unaona wanaingia DM na zile za “Buda si uliomoka blah blah blah” and I just leave them on read. Walikuwa wananiona meffi sana. Saa izi wako in between jobs that pay 40k uko kwa vumbi as I make Ruto’s salary every month uko kwa Trudeau.
Ata kwa familia wengine walikuwa wananidharau sana. Nikifika Kenya December ni kugotea Buda, Matha, grandpa na grandma alafu mbio mbio naanguka Diani and jet straight back to Vancouver.
What I’ve found is that very few people will be by your side through thick and thin. Ata siblings wanaeza kuonyesha madharau sana. Nobody has got your back like yourself. Ata budako anaweza kutoka shida ikikupata.
Personally sijawai ona anyone who goes an extra mile for you. Nikama everyone Ako na small element of jealousy. It’s human nature. They all want you to fail and enjoy the moment
Hapa ni ukweli mtupu… nilikua naambiwa na mbuyu hawa mabeshte wengi najidai niko nao ni fake naona mzae yuko down. When I lost my first job mabeshte wote walinitoroka hata my 2 bros. Sasa juu mimi ni mbirrionaire my tight circle of friends ni 3. Hata sinanga risto na hao brothers wangu. Kila mtu aishi life yake.
Hio tight circle in scam pia. Chances wako na wewe ndio wakule deals zako. Fanya social experiment. Ji soteshe for 2 months uone vile kutaenda. Hata 2 weeks hazitaisha utakua solo
Lakini ukumbuke in your final lap on earth. You will be carried in a box by fellow men who will put your casket into the grave.
Dust to dust. Hii dunia ni mapito.
I have a ‘friend’, and also a cousin like that, They call me once in a while, and any time one of them calls it’s to ask for money. Not borrowing, but ‘being helped’. I wonder if they imagine I never have problems, hehe. When things are fine you’ll never hear from them, and no one will call you to meet wanunue even a cup of tea or lunch, or hata akurushie 1k randomly tu, mtu aseme, Cuzo, weka gari mafuta. Nothing.
Strange humans.
Inategemea, na relationships za watu huwa complex.
Kuna mtu hatujaonana miaka kumi, na nikipatwa na shida, atatoka kwa ile shimo yuko huko Timbuktu, apitie kwa moto na mimi, na ikibidi, pia ataingia kwa maji sababu yangu.
Kuna mtu watu tulijuana kitambo tukiwa college, hatuongei, lakini ile foundation ya urafiki tuliweka enzi izo, bado iko, bora tu mmoja wetu amesema shida iko wapi, yule mwengine atasaidia bila maswali.
Kuna watu wa kurelate na wao pia kila siku, kujuliana hali, kukaa ni kama sisi ni marafiki, lakini wakati ya tabu, wanajificha.
Mna story za kimama sana,fungeni maleso basi.
Hata mtu akae a whole year, it doesn’t mean yeye hakufatilii, ww pia humfatilii, na hakuna makosa hapo,itafuika time ama situation mnapata na hakuna issue apo.
Dume zima unataka kufatiliwa ya nn?
Hizi ni story za ma Binti.
Hii maisha ni ngumu kwa watu wengine bana,alafu mna complain et mnaombwa hela mafala nyinyi, ata baadae ya 2 years hamjaongea hamjaonana nyinyi si mahadui bana.
Fungeni maleso na muache watu waishi maisha yao bila umama wenu.
I can stay even up to 5 months without communicating with my brother or one or two of my close friends but when they need or I need help, nothing is spared to show support.
and then there are those friends who call and check on you frequently but will not offer much support in time of need. But a wise man knows his friends and acquittances and accommodates them all.
