The marriage institution is dead. Very dead!!!
This marriage in the 21st is not working
Planteshen = Suffering
Noma sana. Ten years plus and it feels like tulijuana juzi. Secret ni usijipe stress sio kcse, alafu…
Date someone you can talk to and laugh the whole night and not someone you can fuck the whole night.
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I have two uncles, marriages zao mi huona ni perfect. Mmoja time anacheki news, the wife falls asleep on his lap, mwingine on some family function, departing time they were racing to the passenger door because none wanted to drive, got to the door at the same time and started laughing, both couples are retirees in their 60s with grown up kids. Its a hit or miss affair. Kwanza kuoa solely for beauty jua tu 80% chance utalete hekaya at one point kama huyo msee twitter. Character ni muhimu sana.
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Figgsed!
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This is good news, what’s there advice for marriage?-character?
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Fungua thread about lasting marriage. Marriage do work but this current generation want quick fix.
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Mi sijui because two kids kwa hizi couples washapeana legal separation, very bitter breakups.
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Vile nimeobserve, in both cases the dudes were significantly richer than their wives, taking up provision roles 100%, traditional way of life. Watoto wao wenye waliachana, both female, mmoja dem anafanya coding earning kitu 100k, the other one is a real baller earning a whooping 800k kwa NGO, in her 40s now. Both are still single. Thats why mi huona nikiamua kuenda hiyo route, I will look for a cute village girl maybe huko Taita interior, bonus points mingi sana kama hakufika class 8.
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Guys if you land on a good woman, dont let go of her. They have become rare gems.
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We educate our girls now, no longer instruments of pleasure but partners in marriage.
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True but any woman when she knows you care too much about her anabadilika.
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Kumbe wewe ni mdawida
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Tell them
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Wale wajinga sana sana na ndio wengi
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What I want in a wife is probably the exact opposite of what I would like my daughter to be. If I had one, I would give her the best top notch quality education, maneno ya planteshen yake nawachia Mungu. Good luck trying to mould your kid a certain way in this age of YouTube and reddit and internet.
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Many learned ladies treat education and salary as a substitute for social responsibilities. Some marital responsibilities cannot be replaced or outsourced and that is why marriage is a tough option for most both men and women. Marrying an uneducated lady means you will give more financial input, marrying an educated lady will mean you will have to put up with entitlement of varying degree depending on her upbringing. No wins, just less loss.
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Safi sana OP. A marriage will last if it has few incidences of stress and flight instigators.
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Kunguru hafugikii