I read the post by @M2Random about Kikuyu and i am exercising my right of reply here. First of all, i think that it is demeaning and insulting to many kikuyu women who are working hard to make ends meet and to provide for their families in the event of irresponsible fathers like many of you here. It is especially insulting to us who have hardworking kikuyu mothers and wives. I have two friends married to Kikuyu women, they started from the bottom, and their marriages are just perfect. For me, the experience i have had with other bantu tribes is even worse than with kikuyu women. I wish to make several observations
In any day, you are likely to get more Kikuyu thieves, prostitutes, pastors, and even people with values. In a bag of 100 balls where 30 are red and 10 are blue, you will most likely get 3 balls and i blue in a random pick.
If you hunting grounds are brothels, strip clubs, and you are a coomer customer…if you definitely never meet Kikuyu women of good morals and values.
If your friends and families are your replica, you are doomed. because kikuyu women of values and morals will never cross your path
If your sisters and female members of your extended families are the one who set your standards and you compete for hunting grounds there are no good Kikuyu women
The values of a woman, morals, and what they hold dear…are nurtured from upbringing and background. This is unoversal for all tribes. However, i wish to say the following
Kikuyu women are industrious, risk-taking, entrepreneurial - In the event they are idle, they do not rest at shags waiting for uncles and boyfriends, they venture and where you will find them, depends on who they meet first. Finally, I am proud of all kikuyu women in my life…my mother, my sisters, my aunts, my best girlfriend, my run-to girlfriend, my wishful girlfriend.
I am sad
Thank you for mopping his stupidity! Nada to add. We are who you have described minus the killers among us. My family will never starve just because our Jifathee is out of work. I will keep the house ticking even if ni kua mama nguo going out loudly in the village looking for work. He demeaned all my female relatives. Shaitani yeye. Let us not forget he is dealing with 2 singo mathas that he created. Something set him off. Middle finger comes to my mind.
And in the brothls in Kisumu and other places he mentioned, he will never find good kikuyu women. They get disoriented by women who can hustle better than them, who dont kneel for baby support. I find it hard to understand how someone who even his mother did not model his thinking about kukuyu women. Or maybe he was abandoned in dumpsites. Even Bonface Mwangi speak highly of his mother, who hawked books and run away from county askaris with Bonnie on her back.
Mpaka umeweka thread mzima. Siungejibu tu huko walikuwa wanatusiwa? Heheheee
Hautaweza hio kazi unajitwika. Wanawake wa tribe mzima? Wale wa kuoleka wataolewa. Wale wakujinyce nao, tutaendelea kunyandua bila huruma. I dont think they really need you to save them.
During my criminology studies, I learned that there are certain things that influence human behaviour. Mostly, it is background, history and genetics. There is a reason why different races or tribes behave differently. It all comes down to the background, history and genetics. As much as you would like to disagree, @M2Random is right. Some stereotypes have some truth behind it. Of course, not all Kikuyus are like that. But majority of Kikuyu women have almost the same pattern of behaviour.
Tough luck, you’ll be the same person to generalize all Muslims as terrorists, even though the whites have committed more acts of terrorism.
This is the world we live in now, labeling people.
I know that I generalized. But there is an underlying fact you can’t wish away. How do you explain a tribe that forms just 30% of the population being implicated in over 90% of husband murders???Statistically, it doesn’t add up. Get the ten most recent cases of husband murders in the news, 9 of them will be by Kikuyu women. That is a fact
If gold-digging levels could be measured, Kikuyu women would be way above the national mean because they kill husbands for property. The average Kikuyu woman is financially greedier than the average woman from other tribes by a large margin.
Some stereotypes stick out like sores/pimples. Anyway usiwe reduced in your thinking… I have met very beautiful, thoughtful, industrious and humane Kikuyu ladies outchea. It’s just that most of our parents have been socialized to think negatively about other tribes especially the Mt. Kenya people. All I know is that if you let that bias control you, itakuruin
It has nothing to do with hunting grounds. You will likely get murdered by any prostitute you marry regardless of tribe so hunting grounds don’t matter.
Do you expect to find a well mannered, with values, and a good prostitute for a wife? Why is that your standards are the many kikuyu prostitutes you have met?