Heh!!! I have read the story of Mister Yoda wah I am still wondering kama ni story ama ni kweli. Here I was thinking relationships zimenionyesha mambo. I feel like I was born yesterday. Eish!!! And I am very sure that this is alot younger than me. May God deliver me from wickedness in Jesus name.
Wacha niwaambie ukweli many of these marriages you are so proud of are just built on lies. Marriage has become a kind of a brothel where the end justify any means. It’s a game which has no rules. You can do whatever the heck you want as long as you keep it pushing.
Kwanzaa ile merry go round iko corporate world is just shocking. It has gotten to the point where lazima uzalie boss ndio upate promotion. I saw a mum of 3 break her marriage after kuzalia boss yake na Mungu ni nani mtoto alitokea photocopy ya huyo boss.
Its like you have to be very wicked and cunning to survive in these marriages and have a the devil may care but not me attitude. You put your life, your emotions, your future, your health in somebody’s hands and they’re just playing Russian rollette with it behind your back.
We may say women are bad but who is faithful in marriage? Even men have kids out there enough of them especially since women nowadays are so desperate and cheap as long as you have a little money you can have 50 baby mommas majority hata hawakusumbui na mambo ya child court what they want is just a child.
When we were growing up marriage looked so nice, people were so committed and disciplined , nowadays kumeoza on all sides. Your husband impregnating all your female relatives, mwingine anafugia Bibi kwa room anenda kwa maid. Wives nao wamedecide what a man can do a woman can do best.
Things are bad. Bad, bad, bad kabisa. If you are married and you are not yet HIV thank your God bcz kwanza in Kenya umalaya yenye iko is just too shocking for life. I always ask myself is it so hard to just be faithful. There’s a very big problem in this society bcz by the time HIV new infection is higher among married people than in geys and prostitutes COMBINED things are bad.
Kitambo I used to think maybe it’s a phase people go through in their 20s and 30s like growing pains but now men in their late 40s have the highest new infection rate for HIV. Maybe it’s mid life crisis but imagine beginning to take ARVs in your 50s? Sometimes you must weigh the cost and benefits of your choices. What do you gain from such lifestyles. In the end nothing good can come of these immoral lifestyles. The Wages of sin is death literally. If by your late 40s that truth hasn’t dawned on you, God help you.
If you have been betrayed pole. I wish I could say I knew how you feel but I don’t. Maybe Jesus is the One who understands the pain of being betrayed and disappointed by humans He’s invested so much in on daily basis. All I can tell you is that marriage is not for the faint hearted. Mambo Zina endelea huko inabidi uwe Roho juu kama baharia in choppy waters. Bure utarukwa na akili or you kill someone and end up in jail. Nakwambia ni kubaya. And I am saying that as an outsider like election observers from EU. Lol. Anyway Maisha ni kuvumilia coz tutafanini sasa. We can’t all be single. Majority must face the music squarely to bring another generation. It’s so frustrating when you put everything into a relationship and then you are betrayed, it’s so excruciating. Please before you do this to someone just reconsider the damage and pain you are about to cause. It is so cruel and heartless.
BTW her husband is HIV positive but God protected her she’s negative.
