As something of a psychologist, here’s my theoretical evaluation of ghe KenyaTalk population. I’ll be brief as possible
I will answer the question why mbona mko drawn to prostitutes… Why should it be this subset of the population which meets at this forum?? Because the like attract each other
The reason is deeper than you think na it stems from your childhood. Wazazi wenu ni your greatest reason why mnapenda easy access to sex
Soo ukifanya psychology kama mimi, utajua the single most important thing that defines our relationships ni attachment theory
Kuna the avoidants, the anxious ones na the secure ones.
So hii ni a brief overview of what other people are.
Avoidants ni wale independent and fucked up ones. They don’t need partners to thrive. Their parents walikua rarely in their lives. Hence the fierce independence. Relationships with them ni mateso
Secure ones ni the normal ones. Best people to date
Then there’s the anxious ones (nyinyi maghasser wote huku)
Mnakwanga attached sana. Your parents walikua inconsistent with the love while you were young. Leo mnapendwa, kesho mko abandoned. So subconsciously, mkaform the need for an unhealthy amount of affection. That’s why mko attached kwa kila relationship mnaingia. So your subconscious mind in the quest for love and affection, will confuse sex for love. Sex for you ni the epotome of love. Because kwa akili yenu, it is their body anawapatia. They have committed themselves to you. What can be greater than that??? That, in your mind, is love
na najua mtasema ni bibi anasumbua, sijui oh “ni manjaa”… But hii yenu ni a subconscious crave for love. Visitations ya kenyatalk to prostitutes ni unhealthy.
kwa psychology, the term is “an anxious preoccupied attachment”.
People pleasing is what you people best. But therapy itawasaidia.
Sana sana si ati mko addicted to sex. Its the crave for love. The first step kuwachana na mapoko ni kuji-understand.
The most disgusting forum ni sex and relationships, if only one could hide it for good. Funny though it’s the part that has most threads, most threads being geared towards degrading opposite gender and promotion of prostitution. I remember when the forum used to be safisha Macho only by troll face and not a stage for the two gender to tear each other apart.
Sioni shida iko wapi nikikula pesa zangu za rustling na Malaya zangu pole pole bila kusumbua mtu. Unajua familia ngapi get to sleep with a full stomach from my actions that you so adamantly condemn. Na bado sija hesabu the several hoe’s (side chic’s) I maintain at middle class neighborhoods, the several pre wall young soft meat … that I help make their lives easy through collage by paying rent,token, groceries n wat not … never mind my main bitch living at a high end condo doing fuck all. Nigger my impact to humanity is greater than any self advocating, self righteous, upstanding, morally right and politically correct ma’fucker out there. Fuck u talking bout man …
The forum is very diverse not just one kind of character. I started using the ignore button liberally on the wangapi crew and my experience has greatly improved. I was reminded of this recently when I visited the site without logging in and was surprised by the trash bottom of the barrel threads