I am 30 years old and have been married for five years. We have two children. Within the past year, I have learnt that my husband has been unfaithful to me. In fact, it has become really bad; I have learnt that he has not only slept with every househelp I have employed, but also with my younger sister, who is 20 years old. His affair with my sister went on for some time behind my back. Then recently, he told me that he was going to introduce a 20-year-old woman to his parents as his future wife.
I want to remain faithful but I am scared of his behaviour, because he might infect me with HIV or other sexually transmitted infections. I am too afraid to leave because I fear I might end up without a husband and a father for my children.
I have persistent headaches and at times feel like killing myself and my children. My sister’s marriage did not work. She is a single parent and we were raised by a single parent after our mother abandoned us for another man when we were five and three years respectively. I am scared and confused. Please help.
atasaidika aje? sababu yeye solution yake inakaa ni moja tu, kutoka hapo kama ameingia kwa nyumba ya bwana mwingine. In her mind kua na bwana validates her huyu siwes saidia kama siko ready kuoa yeye
“after our mother abandoned us for another man when we were five and three years respectively. I am scared and confused”
… i am also confused and scared how you are 30 and 20 years respectively. who stopped growing at a point?