Mother_In_LAW

Losoma

Village Elder
#42
In my culture I can't have a tête à tête with my mother in law: we can't even shake hands, sit face to face, eat together...so shida zengine tunaepuka
 

Stanmwa

Village Elder
#43
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Nguvu ya mother in law kuongea in your presence imetoka wapi. Most lokely they have been testing the waters bila wewe kujua. Wanawake kama tuu watoto like testing the limits wajue wanaweza kubeba malemge mpaka wapi. This is a grand opportunity to put an end to their silly games coz hujui next utapimwa mafwi aje. As several talker with degrees have said, read the riot act now. In fact demand to know when she is leaving your house.
Someone once said between being feared and respected, better have people fearing you for the simple reason that many confuse kindness for weakness. Utapeana gari Leo out of thoughtfulness and kindness mother in law atembelee only for them to laugh behind your back wakiwa ndani ya your air conditioned masin kwa traffic wakikuita mjinga. Next utaambiwa usindikize mother in law mpaka kwake on a week day ukikataa watu wananuna tena.
For the first time i have agreed with the sediments of this uncircumcised dim eye. Keep it up
 

Kodiaga

Village Sponsor
#51
Upuss. A man's house is his sanctuary where he retreats to regroup.
we mzee once you marry that house ceases to be yours. The wife will control everything starting from the interior design to the sound system. ni kama unatamani sana kukua member wa AMG MGTOW lakini makali ya ndoa haikukubali.Kwani mancave ni ya nini planteshon workers @Yuletapeli kujeni mupee huyu mzee mzima mawaidha.
 

Yuletapeli

Village Sponsor
#52
we mzee once you marry that house ceases to be yours. The wife will control everything starting from the interior design to the sound system. ni kama unatamani sana kukua member wa AMG MGTOW lakini makali ya ndoa haikukubali.Kwani mancave ni ya nini planteshon workers @Yuletapeli kujeni mupee huyu mzee mzima mawaidha.
Not really. The house belongs to no one, ni yenyu nyote. Kwangu no one is better than the other, we are all equal. Kila mtu ana room yake but we spend most of the time kwa sitting room labda ma time za kudoz.
 

jmoy

Village Elder
#55
Let's be honest here, a mother in law will visit, and her daughter will be for it. In as much as you are the man and probably owner of the home, the alpha, and every other title you deserve, you only have to make sure you remember that every thing with women is a shit test. Wacha akuje, but make it clear to your wife about the maximum number of days she may stay. You will have won the battle with your wife, about being ready to 'accept' her family (women keep score) and at the same time taken away any potential stones that your inlaw may have been planning to use to stone your marriage. kusema wewe ni mtu roho mbaya hukaribishi watu kwako etc. Your mother in law will disguise her visit as having came for treatment, to see grandchildren blah blah blah, but being a woman and jealous as any other woman, she is really there to see how her daughter is handling the planteshen so she can either advise her accordingly or wrongly, based on where she stands on the morality scale. that car thing is because she wants to be given same treatment as her daughter. Even old women still want to believe they 'got it'.
You have spoken like an elder
 

jmoy

Village Elder
#56
She canceled her plans after realizing she is dealing with a beast - Have decreed her ass should never be seeing in any of my cars until i say so.
 
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