Mother_In_LAW

[jmoy]

Mother-in-law came to visit. Wife approached me, mother in law wanted to visit a place, we agreed she books her uber to and from since all cars are busy. Jioni nikikaa chini mother-in-law approaches me with same issue quoting what my wife told her. I answer the same and to my face she says, 'i cant take uber' yet she came in a PSV. Inside me am, 'woman!!!' Am so worked up!

What's your experience with Mother-in-laws?

 

[BottleJuice]

Boss, dissappear for the duration of her visit if you want peace. Keep all correspondence with her at the bare minimum. She must be a singo matha.

 

[Klaw]

hehe kumbe ulifuga mtu ukapotea kwa kijiji

 

[Shaka]

It never happened

 

[uwesmake]

umafwi thread from a 60 year old fool

 

[Tom Bayeye]

Tomba yeye pia. In-laws sio watu wa kusumbuana nao kila wakati.

 

[LeVoyeur]

Mother-in-law came to visit. Wife approached me, mother in law wanted to visit a place, we agreed she books her uber to and from since all cars are busy. Jioni nikikaa chini mother-in-law approaches me with same issue quoting what my wife told her. I answer the same and to my face she says, 'i cant take uber' yet she came in a PSV. Inside me am, 'woman!!!' Am so worked up!

What's your experience with Mother-in-laws?

Kaka umepotea sana, lakini vile umeambiwa hapo juu jipe shugli ama utajipata umemsomea mbele ya mutoto yake vibaya sana, mother in law ni mtu wa kuona no more than 48hrs.

 

[Baresi]

Why do you sleep in the same house with MIL? That's where you go wrong.

 

[TuTu]

Mwambie umefikiria yale mambo alisema na umeona afadhali mngemwambia arukie nduthi tu.

 

[Stick-Up Kid]

Pea bibi gari afanye hio opus alfu wewe utumie uber. case solved.

 

[Karoga]

Pea bibi gari afanye hio opus alfu wewe utumie uber. case solved.

Fear and defeated Beta male planteshen worker mindset UPUSS!!!!!!

 

[Karoga]

..... Just call your post wall chieth dudong khupipi na mama yake hapo nje and read the riot act as the man of the house !!!!!!
Non compliance by the mother in law or her dota watarudi ushago saa nane za usiku bila huruma ,this is my house sitaki ujinga!!!!!!
Once you are done reading the riot act ,enda kalia kiti yako ya mzee and watch MMA as you sip your Guinness bila maneno mingi.

 

[Lionheart]

Tomba yeye pia...

 

[Lonely Lover]

hii thread ina alot of potential....following closely.

 

[Mundu Mulosi Bs Ms Ma PhD and ScD]

Makosa ya kwanza, kuruhusu mother in law kulala/kuishi kwako.
Makosa ya pili allowing your mother in law to have a say in your house. Sahii they are just testing the waters.

 

[cave man]

@Mulosi...u r right...sasa naona umuhimu wa degree

 

[Mauricio]

This is a non-issue mzae.

 

[magreb]

Nguvu ya mother in law kuongea in your presence imetoka wapi. Most lokely they have been testing the waters bila wewe kujua. Wanawake kama tuu watoto like testing the limits wajue wanaweza kubeba malemge mpaka wapi. This is a grand opportunity to put an end to their silly games coz hujui next utapimwa mafwi aje. As several talker with degrees have said, read the riot act now. In fact demand to know when she is leaving your house.
Someone once said between being feared and respected, better have people fearing you for the simple reason that many confuse kindness for weakness. Utapeana gari Leo out of thoughtfulness and kindness mother in law atembelee only for them to laugh behind your back wakiwa ndani ya your air conditioned masin kwa traffic wakikuita mjinga. Next utaambiwa usindikize mother in law mpaka kwake on a week day ukikataa watu wananuna tena.

 

[Slim_fit]

Let's be honest here, a mother in law will visit, and her daughter will be for it. In as much as you are the man and probably owner of the home, the alpha, and every other title you deserve, you only have to make sure you remember that every thing with women is a shit test. Wacha akuje, but make it clear to your wife about the maximum number of days she may stay. You will have won the battle with your wife, about being ready to 'accept' her family (women keep score) and at the same time taken away any potential stones that your inlaw may have been planning to use to stone your marriage. kusema wewe ni mtu roho mbaya hukaribishi watu kwako etc. Your mother in law will disguise her visit as having came for treatment, to see grandchildren blah blah blah, but being a woman and jealous as any other woman, she is really there to see how her daughter is handling the planteshen so she can either advise her accordingly or wrongly, based on where she stands on the morality scale. that car thing is because she wants to be given same treatment as her daughter. Even old women still want to believe they 'got it'.

 

[Parerenyatwa]

Jipe shuguli serious sana. Women have a very bad tendency to ruin everything that's thriving with total bullshit and nonsense.