This is @Nonsense
Ever thought why sex pests are required to register wherever they go in the US of A? Even after they have atoned for their crimes through jail terms etc
A leopard cannot change his spots.
Zulu thesis is not applicable where the matter relates to health issues for example for a couple having difficulty conceiving , STIs STDs, HIV status OR other children or hidden family, sexual orientation etc where a partner has the right to know.
Zulu is a notorious beta chieth no matter his ramblings. A man must be cognisant of her woman’s past indiscretions because there is no such thing as a reformed kunguru. Once a kunguru always a kunguru. There are women who divorce their beta husbands after 27yrs in marriage to return back to the streets kufanya kazi wamezoea.
My advice to any young man planning to marry, marriage aint a joke,its a lifetime commitment to someone who will mother your children. This is someone who will either help you become a billionaire or a pauper…someone who will determine the health and intelligence of your kids so sentiments aside tafadhali.
Therefore, before committing,
*find out about her family health history…this is very important…if your own family has a history with diabetes etc dont marry into a family with the same…the same applies to so many other diseases esp hereditary ones
Find out about any abuses( physical or mental)she might have undergone in the past…the scars rarely heal.
Find out about her sexual history…kunguru habadiliki
Also find out about her financial history together with her family’s finances or else you will end up in a very abusive financial state.
One way of doing this is by talking to atleast one person she schooled with in highschool and/or college over some whiskey, information usually flows generously without you having to ask a single question…and please don’t ask, just sit and listen. Some wayward relative of hers or even a neighbour might come in handy if you happen to bump into them hapa town …and you will.
You can also ‘borrow’ her old phone from 10years ago. Back then they never really used to clean up their phones because they werent really committed to anybody…and they would keep one phone for over 3years…its a goldmine esp convos with her best friends. Call me paranoid but i cant commit to someone without a thorough background check ati because of love. By the way this is what our grandpas did before they married our grandmas…marriage was never out of blind love
But after marriage desist from doing any of the above
How will you achieve all this:D…what works I guess is after you get attracted to her try as much for her to move in or atleast spend 3 days with her every week after a month you’ll have known 90% about her…she will slip and get out of character eventually
You dont meet a woman today and marry her tomorrow…the vetting process should never take less than 1year…akipita lima yeye mimba kwanza kabla uende kwa wazazi wake
That’s too much work if you ask. Instead of all that trouble … just join the haga team like @Mimi Huwa Namwaga Ndanii aka @Akon City aka @Uvuvwevwevwe Onyetenyevwe
This last part is the valid point I got from Zulu’s statements.
If you don’t investigate before you commit, you are accepting them As-Is, and once you decide to commit, any complaint is Buyers Remorse you have to deal with yourself.