Here are excerpts from a black parenting forum pale Yunare States, in which they consistently point to young boys from single households as the biggest cause of trouble.
These comments are in a reaction to a 10 year old boy who killed his mother because she refused to buy him a VR Headset.
https://people.com/crime/boy-accused-fatally-shooting-mom-refused-buy-virtual-reality-headset/
But at least there responsible fathers akina @Yuletapeli who help nip this behaviour in the bud which is a good thing for the well-being of our society.
@TrumanCapote na @Nameberry1 najua watalala na viatu Leo wakiona hii.
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““Black daughters are soooooo much easier to raise imo. They even turn out better even when raised in the same tribulations as the boys””
““My nieces have been bullied by a little black boy. I’ve been having my nieces watch martial arts lessons for kids and they tag teamed and whooped his ass. I’m talking black eye and limping like Fred Sanford. I confronted his mother and told her: she needs to find a positive male role model for her son, stop making excuses, and start using the belt. Single mothers cannot raise boys, simple as that. It’s sons like hers that impregnate these girls, leave them single mothers and wreak havoc on the black community and society as a whole. And yes, I did call her a shitty, worthless parent because she coddles her son but she’s strict with her daughter. Absentee fathers are the worst but mothers who baby them and do nothing just add to the problem.””
"“I teach middle school and I will tell you that there is so much entitlement from these children. When they do something wrong, the parents will go out and buy I-Phones, I-Pads, etc. I even had a student who called his parent and demanded a new pair of sneakers, although he had multiple pairs at home. This starts at home and parents need to either discipline their children or don’t have them.”:
““Confirmation that I made the right choice to send my teenaged sons to my ex husband. I did my best. I was a strict parent and made grades, chores, and manners a priority. My bitter ex husband is still mad that I would rather eat a jean jacket than be with him so undermined my parenting. He’s fun dad. I kindly put them on a plane when they start act up, to live with fun dad that doesn’t care if you make good grades or go to the dentist. Ain’t no way!!!
I’m a gun owner too. I’m not about to wonder if you will off me because I expect an honor roll student to pass English and that’s your 1st language. Bye Sirs!!!””
"“Even with a father present, boy children can still turn out like this. My sister and I were raised strict by our parents, but our brother was spoiled and never expected to take on any responsibilities. As a result, he is a nearly 40 year old man still living at home because he was never raised to do or be better.”
“” I have a moody, begging ass 11 yr son. He got suspended for a day for pushing another kid. Homie thought he was gonna come home, get a tongue lashing and then back to business. Nah playa, got him up at 4 am Friday morning and had him raking the grass, washed all 17 window INDOOR AND OUTDOOR in my mom’s home. Mopped the entire 2300 Sq ft, home, pressure washed the 3 car driveway. He had a one meat sandwich, two cookies and some water (jailhouse lunch) for lunch. He didn’t eat it. By 2 pm he was crying and saying how he already apologize etc…he got one more time and I’m shipping his little behind to his father in The Keys to live in that room with him. He won’t have it easy with his dad in the least bit!“”[/I]
"“About the DNA thing when procreating. I’ve taught in an elementary school for years and some of the boys’ behavior did not mirror their mothers’ character. I’ve had mothers tell me that their boys, with behavior issues, act just like their fathers even though the fathers were not in their lives.”
“Being an educator in middle school I have decided this year to stop looking out for our own because folks will take up for these black boys behavior and make you feel like you doing something wrong by correcting them. Next year will be my last year teaching in middle school. This happened to me twice working at this school. It’s a no for me.”
“I’m a social worker, an associate of mine had a client (black female). Whose 6"2 Schizophrenic sixteen year ago son broke her arm beating her. This women was beaten on an regular basis until, the boy was taken away by the authorities. Of course, the father was not involved, didn’t care about the abuse the mother had endured, and or tried to help his son.”"
""My sister coddled my nephew and spoiled him. He grew up and choked her. She had to call the police on him.“”