See, most people get bored with their wives after a few years in marriage. Very few people here who have been married for more than two years manage to reach the threshold with their wives. Forget threshold anyway, hata newly weds dont go beyond the usual 3. I belong(ed) to the group that manages only one shot with the wife (of 7 yrs) and 3 shots with my MSim. Not that I dont love my wife, In fact siwes ishi bila yeye. Ni vile tu tumezoeana (thats what I thought, until this weekend). Men, you may want to learn from me.
My wife is a kale from Eld. My 2 kids demanded to be taken to their grandma in Kesses, na tukawapeleka Friday and left them there. We were so tired to return to nairobi plus it was late. We spent the night in Eld. Just the usual one round before sleeping and an early morning glory on Sato. Then we decided to tour Lake Bogoria on our way back since we had a whole day to kill. The place is nice, those who haven’t been there should consider visiting. Now tukafika Nakuru kitu 7pm and decided to spend the night there since we were tired kiasi. Guys, despite the tiredness after driving that long distance, I still managed to hammer three that evening na jana (sunday) asubuhi, I woke my wife at 4am for another 2. Left the hotel at 10am and back to Nairobi for lunch. Decided to take lunch out and then an afternoon nap. And another 2 shots. Guys, within 24 hrs, nilikua nimefikisha threshold- with my wife. Makofi jamaneni.
Now, the secret to satisfying sex with your wife is being able to get a conducive environment free of interference from kids, relatives and responsibilities. Whereas that may not be possible every day, we should try to get away at least one weekend every month. That way, you can always achieve the threshold monthly and avoid the temptation of keeping a mpango. Hio pesa ya kulipia MSim nyumba tumia kupeleka bibi yako out.
Am telling you it is a whole new experience. Men, try it out before dismissing your wife as not sexually appealing.
That is exactly what this thread seeks to change. Our wives are the only legitimate sexual partners in this world. Why should we be embarrassed talking about our experiences with them and yet feel free to talk aboit it with our MWKs?
btw, try it guys. it feels like being married all over again.
This is nice…people should be proud of their wives and vice versa…and if your wife can claim you take her to cloud nine…the more power to you brother
Had the same experience, went to Mombasa by road self drive with sleepovers at mtitoAndei after visiting Mzima springs, voi, and several nights in Mombasa best mpenyo have ever had reminded us of honeymoon
Boss, why would you get money to pay for a lodging and alcohol and condoms and food and an out-of-town drive with a lanye (hata umuite gf, MWK, MSim, etc bado ni lanye), and not get some for taking your wife out? Because we believe that we will not get as good sex with the wife as we would get with the lanye.
Good advice there from @kamnjoro take sometime off to got break the hotel bed as you pleasure her.
Good for you but my life is way too complicated to put it here and it keeps on changing. I agree that wife or your first baby mamma is important to your life and that is why you had kids together. We never got marriage but lived apart for 2 years, even in those 2 years, she would still come over, we still had sex many times because our sex life was never a problem and she missed what i do to her. Right now she has been back in the last 2 months full time after she saw me with second lady whom now is expecting, we cant keep our hands from each other and she is OK with my others. A full blown roller coaster but i’m happy i have a beautiful family, i’m happy and impacted well in the lives of those around me. We talked all of us recently and set the ground rules, its working and i’m not sneaking around to be with my families. The only worry is how i will explain it to my parents this Dec, i know my Dad he will definitely accept the additional family members but he might not talk to me again or chase me away.