Siwezi lipia mwoman hii yote alafu baadaye she Nyerifies me or Kiambus me
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@uwesmake, ulilipa hii yote for your mshiny eye mwife? See yr life
Sasa hizi ndio gani?
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Then u wonder why we have generational poverty in Africa…#upusss
You only pay what you have. Ukiitishwa ata unaweza lipa 5K. When you finally settle after years na una pesa. You Go for ngurario or cutting the shoulder. Kumaliza deni
Mila za shineye ni za kulewa na kufyonza pesa. Siwes lipa.
@adidas juu chini, in kikuyu traditional setting, we never write these things down. And the monetary value is not fixed, you negotiate. Example, one mburi can even be priced @ 500/=. The long and short of it is wewe ni nugu
Bado sijaona blanket
They are above your weight wachana nayo.
And rugito is for younger sis coz sis mkubwa mwenye kumzuia baridi will no longer be there. Rugito literally is the wall side of the bed which is for younger siblings.
In some places dowry haifai imalizwe kulipwa
Lazima ulete matusi kila wakati?
Sorry, haikuwa matusi. Naona umeanza kufanya feasibility ya kuoa. As they say if you have to ask the price…
Unafaa umalize, either wewe, au watoto wako wamalizie ma uncle
Mschana hauzwi huwa anaozwa!!!..it’s not about price but respect you show your to be in-laws. If you have you have…if not ni sawa, bora heshima!
Hiyo sio nyingi wariah standard dowry ya msichana from a well to do family is USD 10,000 alafu unapea the woman something called meher (she asks for whatever she wants) which is to be paid to her juu chini. You can pay it before marriage ama mkiendelea kuishi na yeye. In the case of divorce you have to pay her immediately. They mostly ask for 100g of pure solid gold which translates to around 400-500k depending on the market.
As long as they allow me to pay is Somalia Shillings, i can bring in in truckloads
This is not a standard measure of how it goes .muhoye kirira muheo na mumenye cia mucii ti como
How much you pay for dowry depends on what you want to pay. Even 20k can be enough depending on your capability.
Kwani unaenda show room ! Kwaza make sure she’s pregnant and they have no choice ! ANYWAY
This can be easily sorted out ,you need sharp negotiator (elder) who will reduce these to about 150k, it’s not just a one off business
It’s just a sale by any other name. Euphemisms tuache.
They give you such budgets but they are not enforceable in their entirety. However, you must give some down payment. Say, 400k. After that, you can relax. But, no man finish paying dowry. Unakaaga na debt ya athoni forever