As you all know. I stopped banging hoes na nimekuwa nikikula madem wenye nimekatia mwenyewe. I have been seriously pursuing a lady. Two weeks of calling and texting daily.
When I didn’t call, she never bothered to call me but two times she’d surprise me with a phone call. Last week I texted her on FB and she answered a day a later. I gave up and cut off all communication.
Leo ananaiamkia zile za good morning, umenyamaza sana. Nikamshow nilichoka na yeye and she asked why. Nikamshow ni juu I feel like I have been forcing communication.
She delayed to reply for a while and then texted saying ati if I have decided to ghost her, she wishes me and that she loved me despite having never met me. I have just said sawa and un friended her.
It’s funny how females pretend not to see their problem and shift the entire blame to men. Hizo siku nimenyamaza she never called or texted to know nilienda wapi lakini suddenly today she noticed nimenyamaza sana as if my job ni kumjulia hali.
Anyway, kwa hio muda nishapata mwingine and all is well.
If you “stopping to bang hoes” has resulted in you acting this way towards a biach then you might need to reconsider that decision. And always be nonchalant towards them all wasiwahi kusoma.