Would You?

Sex & Relationships
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Now, wananume na wanawake, swali:

You’re married to a beautiful woman (depends really on your own eyesight)
and she works for a gava agency or some international organisation
She comes home from work and tells you that they’re planning to post her to Brazil for one year
(for the record, this is Brazil)
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Knowing that Brazil is the second most secshually active country on the damn planet,
swali:

  1. Utakubali aende?
  2. Utainsist uende na yeye? (this means quitting your job and living off of hers)
  3. Utamwambia akae nyumbani na mzee amesema na hata asijaribu kuamsha hiyo story tena

Pink handles, mngedo? If it was your hubby in the same situation?

Bibi ya beshte wangu ako works WFP na hii ndio story zao saa hii. Aliambiwa early dec and she
has to decide whether to go or not by end January.

Ingekuwa mimi, option namba 3. I don’t even know how it would become a topic of discussion/debate.

Wewe je?

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I’d go with her. Akikataa akae nyumbani. But, if that’s the line of work she chose and I know her(that’s why we’re together in fact), tunaeza kaa chini tuzungumze. Maybe I can try a biz there for one year. Hehee.

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option 1 ukikataa aende in the future atasema ulimkataza adevelop careerwise…alafu alete mangaa ile siku utadai support:D
option 2 si mbaya sana but inakuwa burden kama una watoto na ego na io change abrupt ya environment
option 3 refer to option number 1

so what would you do?

4

Yes aende

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5

Hio tunaenda pamoja, she retains her well paying job while I hustle with whatever will come up my way. I might get lucky and land a well paying job too.

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6

Aende… kwani Uon bitches wameisha… Sj na kadhalika

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accompanying her is a serious case of mistrust…she can suit herself afterall if she is a cheat, she can still gerrit upskirt kwa office

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Dilemmas in life.
It would have been proper if she, for the sake of the family, decides not to go in steady of putting the husband in this awkward situation. one year is along period and most of the organizations pay for their staff once a year to visit their families and I believe this will be the end of her one year term. If the family can’t afford either spouse visiting regularly then its hard.
If the husband let’s her go and she is taken by some niga (history can prove this) the damage is irreparable.
If he goes for option3 he will be branded insecure brat and either way it goes the relationship suffers.
Option2 is costly unless they have a solid financial background. never embrace a situation that can leave you depending on your wife, you will live to regret.

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Wacha aende ,kwani atabeba kuma zote,mpaka Brazil juu ya kuma ,akikufa atasema wazikwe pamoja,?

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10

1 year ni kidogo sana. Acha aende

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Let her go, it might help you know some good/bad tabias about her hukuwa unajua.

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12

acha aende bwana. Kama hawana watoto even better let her go kama “she was the one” (hahaha) she will end up back in his arms afer realizing kina Pedro and Henrique are not as good as his Arsenal Jersey-wearing ass.

Your friend surely does not want to be blamed for all her future misfortunes for curtailing her career growth.

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option 1 if no kids or if grown up kids. option 3 if young kids. option 2 is a no no. can’t rely on a woman…well except my mother when I was growing up.

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14

tia mimba then wacha aende ata rudi kabla mwaka uishe

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15

:D:D

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:D:D:D

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jamii ni young. watoi ni watatu, wote wasichana.
ages 12, 7 na mwingine wa juzi kama 3 ama 4 years sikumbuki sana
inakaa maboy hapa ingekuwa wao it would be the perfect opportunity to rid themselves of their wives/girlfriends
:D:D

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Don’t take that seriously, hizi huwa hekaya tu. My observation is many talkers value their marriages sana.

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hehehehehehehe. Wisdom ya wazee kama fote!

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Mzito hii ungeeka poll ingezama. Aende. Momo za uwes watashikilia