Couldn’t have said it better. Abomination. Mrs. Purple ako wapi?
Sometimes you hear women saying awkward things like ‘We broke up and I kicked him out of my house.’ Or sometimes he refuses to leave and now she’s in a crisis. But just how do women manage to do some things like bringing a man into her house and even imagining that such a man can ever become a husband? A lady who has enough sense to build her own house doesn’t have enough sense to add one plus one and know that a true man can never move into a woman’s house? Those are reversed roles and gentlemen just don’t operate that way. It’s unfair that you pick a character whose behaviour shows he’s parasitic and weak from the onset and then when your attempts to rehabilitate and convert him to a husband fail you leave there crying foul about ‘men of nowadays.’
A man who is worthy his name will want to lead his woman and house her himself. Even if she has a house it’ll become just one of their family assets but he will never rely on what she has. He cannot even do the fifty-fifty thing because it’s a mockery to their position of headship. The very act of doing the calculations and divisions is an insult to him. No matter who is earning how much, as a leader he insists on unity and trust. No keeping of scores or ducking responsibilities under his leadership.
He sets example by being literally in front in everything, and he expects her to eagerly back him up with everything she has. And that’s how real men prove their mettle and win respect.
One word answer : LOVE …
Women ( … and Men … ) will do a lot for LOVE …
They will pick a bum , thug , drug addict , alcoholic , womanizer , hoe , abuser and TRY to make a good man / woman out of him …
It is the nurturing feminine mother instinct hard wired deep inside every woman …
Some ( … like @Trueman Capote…) try and hide or suppress this feeling but soon , like oil in water , it comes to the surface …
Free Advice :
A long time ago , I confronted and came to terms with my own personal fails , weakness , desires and strengths …
I decided to stop wearing my feelings on my sleeve and instead , pre-occupy and dedicate myself to my fun career , avoiding negativity ( …I have a very mean , tough , dark side …) and striving always to doing good Deeds ( …even to bad people…) - most of all , being at peace with myself.
** …Now you probably understand why I have such a soft spot for the Oppressed , Neglected BBBW’s and Sweet Wives who lack Love and Attention …*** :D:D:D
Often in here , one come across the word “Simp” … ( …usually implying a kind hearted , tolerant , forgiving , generous individual…)
Nothing Wrong with that …
Just make sure NO ONE ever takes advantage or uses it as a weapon against You …
Sio mimi, ni Benjamin Zulu amesema. I realised child care is very expensive in states it can even reach 500k a month for 3 kids to be in daycare so for her she’s got a free baby sitter benten